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#7: Addictions, Drugs and Spirituality

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 30 Jul 2021 00:00:00 +0000

In today’s world, so many things pass as ‘spiritual’. But what does real spirituality actually mean, and what is the result of engaging in psychedelics, kundalini yoga, or thinking ‘I am everything’? In today’s talk we start off by discussing something Balakhilya’s dad told him in regards to intoxication, namely ‘If you don’t start anything you don’t have to quit’. Actually, all bona-fide spiritual processes teach refraining from intoxication as a prerequisite for spiritual development.

We speak about what can be the result of using psychedelics, how kundalini yoga can help us experience our true spiritual nature, and how we inherently and eternally need a loving relationship. From there Balakhilya explains the 2 ways to acquire knowledge, how self-satisfaction is the solution to the environmental crisis, and the path to get the ultimate, natural ‘high’. You’ll also hear Balakhilya explain the meaning of the mantras we are using and why we use those.

Highlights:

(3:10) If you don’t start something, you never have to quit
(8:27) Taking drugs doesn’t open spiritual doors
(14:47) The difference between physical, mental and spiritual
(35:50) Descending process and Bhakti yoga, approaching big nature - respect the mountain and the mountain may allow you to summit
(44:00) Drugs to escape unhappiness: negation of the negative. Problem is a lack of real love.
(55:00) Start by learning from our faults and bad habits, can't start perfect.
(1:12:00) 'We worry about how we should leave a better planet for our kids, but we don't worry about leaving better kids for the planet'
(1:21:51) About the famous surfer who had a massive wipeout, ending up with 11 hours a day rehab just to surf again

Recorded on March 8, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/7 Watch video version, contribute to podcast, join Facebook group, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

#15: Career, Motivation & Spiritual Life | Jonathan Amantea

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 28 Sep 2021 00:00:00 +0000

In his younger years he was known as Firebird, a well-known personality in the nightclub hosting community in Toronto, Canada. At the time his life was seeking pleasure through late nights, intoxication and partying but when his health started to decline he figured that something had to change. He wasn’t happy and realized that the lifestyle he was leading wasn’t the answer.

In this episode we sit down for a chat with Jonathan who is currently a highly successful real estate sales person in Toronto, an outstanding long-distance mountain biker, a father - but first and foremost, someone who is leading and promoting a lifestyle of yoga meditation. We discuss the importance of having determination for achieving anything in life, how Jonathan and Balakhilya were and are still pleasure-seekers (the method to achieve it has changed though), and how to balance meditation practice with a busy career. Jonathan reveals his intriguing secret to a healthy back and shares the story of a six day and 500km fatbike ride through the snowy trails of the Durham forest last winter.

Highlights:

(18:44) Seeking the topmost pleasure
(31:53) Changing one’s life and desires through discipline and commitment
(42:43) Fun story about vegetarian diet and sports performance
(51:40) Stimulants, caffeine and mountain biking
(58:36) Chant no matter what and leave nobody behind; short story about real life changing values

Recorded on September 20, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/15

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#21: How to Prepare for Death

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 26 Oct 2021 00:00:00 +0000

“For one who is born, death is certain” - Bhagavad-gita 2.27

A few months ago, a friend of ours started having a minor headache. The day afterwards, it got a lot worse with vomiting and extreme pain. She went into a coma. The doctors diagnosed her with brain cancer. The day after, they operated and found out that the brain was already dead. From perfectly healthy to leaving her body - it was all over in 4 days.

Death is probably one of the most painful and scary experiences in life. We are usually trying to run away from this uncomfortable subject, so much so that we don’t want to talk or even think about it. We are not only afraid of our own death, but more so - we do not want to lose the ones we love. We know that this will break our heart and bring painful separation. But the truth is; we all have a terminal illness, and every second brings us closer to death. And death is the final exam of our life.

In this episode we share the story of our friend, and how she passed this exam through daily activities and decisions that promoted spiritual growth. You’ll hear how the foundation is understanding that we and our loved ones are all spirit souls - part and parcel of the Supreme Soul - and our nature is eternal, wise, and blissful. And we need knowledge and guidance coming from a living spiritual teacher, someone who is above illusions. We speak about how the karmic reactions actually decide how much time we have in this lifetime, and how we can choose to come to terms with death and learn how to prepare for it.

We also look at the importance of a daily mantra meditation practice, something that helps us to transcend this material world even before we actually leave our body. We describe how the whole Vedic system aims at directing people to knowing their constitutional position. It provides a step by step process for gradual purification and different practices according to each person's consciousness.

Highlights:

(2:47) Coming to understand the truth of your identity is the foundation of knowledge that will cover all aspects of life, including how to leave this world
(7:53) People that do extreme things in the outdoors often say they do it to “learn about themselves” - but really, they learn only about the limits of the body & mind. The danger is a sense of false self-reliance.
(10:30) A real life story of our friend that left this world successfully after being diagnosed with brain cancer
(31:17) We find bliss in spirituality - the real fruit is in knowledge. No need to speculate, you can have real experiences.
(35:18) Your consciousness determines your future, and what actions you take in this life determines your consciousness.
(46:12) The gradual advancement of spiritual consciousness is centred around accepting a higher authority
(59:51) Developing our relationship to the Supreme Soul will transfer us smoothly and safely away from this body and back home to the spiritual world.

Recorded on June 7, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/21

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#12: The 3 Psychological Influences that Control Us | Part 1

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 24 Aug 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Have you ever heard about three modes of material nature? Probably not, because most of the western people do not even know about its existence and influence upon us. Sattva-guna - mode of goodness, Raja-guna - mode of passion and Tama-guna - mode of ignorance — these are three different forces of material nature, that are influencing us every day. The food that we eat, the way that we interact with others, our likes and dislikes, our tendencies and desires are all under influence of these three modes of nature. Sometimes we are under the influence of the mode of goodness, sometimes passion takes over and sometimes ignorance creeps into our life. But can have a control over the influence of these modes upon ourselves.

By learning about the characteristics of each mode of nature you will be able to find out which mode is currently covering you and work against its negative influence. The knowledge of yoga is not only giving us complete information on this subject of three gunas, but it is also giving us solution how to get out from their clutches.

Highlights:

(5:08) All livings entities have intelligence
(11:23) The 3 modes of material nature - goodness, passion, and ignorance. If we know how we are being influenced, we can do something about it.
(37:34) How do we use our intelligence? The purpose is to acquire knowledge.
(46:33) We don't know what it's gonna take for any individual, including ourselves, to change things in our life; story of Ruben's friend
(56:38) 4 principles to bring us into the mode of goodness
(1:13:26) If you have real knowledge, you know the escape route

Recorded on April 5, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/12

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#6: Food, Lifestyle & Vitality

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 23 Jul 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Health and vitality — who doesn’t want to have good health? We all do. So let’s talk about how to balance our bodies and minds simply through our food and lifestyle choices. It’s actually simple and easy to start a healthy lifestyle. The ancient Vedic wisdom gives us amazing insights into how the body actually works, and how we can live our lives to achieve real balance and vitality. It’s possible for us all. Balakhilya explains this and more in this podcast. Tune in to find out more about vegetarian food, the body as a machine, organic food, mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing and more. Highlights:

(4:18) Ayurveda — The number 1 health system
(8:42) Balakhilya's healthy life story (being a vegetarian)
(20:21) Food and diet, stress, physical & mental health, exercise, walking and nature
(40:40) Nature's timer — When to exercise, meditate, work and sleep? And what happens when we don't follow this system?
(54:57) Balakhilya's daily routines
(1:04:40) Good health — for what?
(1:07:18) «Simple living, high thinking». We can't start with perfection

Recorded on March 1, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/6

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#20: How Alcohol Affects Us & Society

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 22 Oct 2021 00:00:00 +0000

We all know that alcohol abuse causes tremendous negative impacts for individuals and society. The cost of excessive alcohol use in the US alone reaches around $249 billion every year. And the aggression and violence that comes from such an abuse has tremendous impacts through broken families, traumatised children, etc.

But a recent scientific study of 25 000 individuals point to the fact that there is no safe amount, that all alcohol consumption is harmful to the brain - something the Vedas have made clear since time immemorial. In this episode we take a closer look at the most wide-spread drug of all. We speak about the idea that ‘everything that exists in nature is meant for humans to consume’ - actually, the reality is that we need to be selective, because different substances that we take in to our bodies bring us into different states of consciousness.

You’ll also hear us talk about how people use intoxicants like alcohol as a way to escape pain and misery, and why this never will produce a good result. Another aspect we touch upon is that all activities we engage in have repercussions (karmic reactions), whether in this lifetime or in future lifetimes. And as society become increasingly based on sense pleasure, there are less and less restrictions to any type conduct, and moral codes are disappearing. You’ll hear us talk about how we no longer have a clear compass to follow, how people are supported to act based on their lust - but lust always leads to anger.

Another important aspect we discuss in recovering from alcohol abuse is that one cannot do it alone. Surrendering to a higher power plays a completely central part in the most successful recovery programs, such as Alcoholics Anonymous.

Highlights:

(2:25) Is everything in nature natural/good for us? Peace vs. anxiety
(8:24) A scientific look at alcohol's effect on the human brain
(24:46) We are so far away from what real fun is, that we have to turn to alternate states of consciousness
(27:40) Everyone wants liberation; the Vedas teach real liberation
(42:39) We want to be able to redirect the mind into a favourable direction, that’s why alcohol is not beneficial for us
(52:11) The link between mass shootings and our hedonistic society
(1:08:28) Choose a life that is beneficial for you physically, mentally and spiritually - and help others by inspiring them to do the same

Recorded on May 31, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/20

Episode links:

‘No safe amount’ - All alcohol consumption ‘harmful to the brain’: https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/health-family/no-safe-amount-all-alcohol-consumption-harmful-to-the-brain-1.4569266

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#97 – “I Thought Religion Was Irrelevant to Me. I Was Wrong.”

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 11 Nov 2025 20:58:46 +0000

“Millions are like me when it comes to religion: well-educated and successful people for whom religion has been irrelevant. We grew up in secular households or drifted away from the faiths in which we were raised and never looked back. For them, I think I have a story worth telling.”

The search for deeper meaning isn’t just for those who are struggling—it’s a powerful drive for the most successful among us. Drawing from the story of social scientist Charles Murray, we unpack why curiosity, purpose, and spiritual questioning are essential, even when life seems secure.

We discuss everything from near-death experiences to a purpose-driven living and show how true growth starts when you seek beyond what’s comfortable.

Stay curious, keep seeking, and let that drive lead you to real fulfillment.

Highlights:

(03:58) Is religion only for the weak, the poor and the dumb?
(08:13) Why something rather than nothing?
(10:49) Compare the downsides of being wrong about religion to the upsides of being right about it
(14:57) Near-death experiences: consciousness beyond the body
(18:34) So what is consciousness?
(27:03) Atheism is a societal experiment
(30:37) Generation Z now seeks spiritual purpose
(33:43) Be a true seeker, not a groupie who just goes along
(36:22) Gold diggers in California
(40:36) The journey is an eternal journey, and it will only make your life happier

Recorded on November 11, 2025.

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#96 – Turning Biological Bonds into Nourishing Soul Connections

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 11 Oct 2025 13:38:59 +0000

Today we dig into what really separates material and spiritual relationships. We discuss how most family ties are based on karma and material comfort, but real spiritual connection means seeing the soul within—and helping those we love connect to the ultimate shelter, not just ourselves. We get personal about family, searching for shelter, and what makes a real spiritual family.

Highlights:

(2:46) What is a material relationship?
(7:22) Why the divorce rates are skyrocketing
(14:20) How the modern age is destroying the family structure
(18:46) Faith and family influence
(25:04) “Family” doesn’t have to include a biological connection
(30:45) Vedic family structure
(35:39) How to move forward despite having had a difficult upbringing

Recorded on February 1, 2023.

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#95 – Playing God & Society’s Collapse

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 25 Aug 2025 07:25:51 +0000

Today we get real about why the world seems so upside down—with everything from artificial wombs to self-centered, corrupt politics.

We share our thoughts on society’s “playing God” complex and the loss of spiritual values, talk Matrix-like dystopias, and offer a personal antidote: daily meditation, prayer, and reconnecting with the divine within.

It’s all about making space for meaning—one quiet moment at a time.

Highlights:

(0:57) Those who play God create womb factories
(11:08) The human race is a race of “sheeple”
(16:22) I have to take care of my own life
(22:48) This is not the first time the world is going in the wrong direction
(30:41) Don’t think it’s hopeless

Recorded on December 14, 2022.

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#94 – When the Heart Won’t Move On

Balakhilya and Ruben — Thu, 31 Jul 2025 10:19:53 +0000

How can I move on after a breakup? And should I in the first place?

Today we tackle the challenging crossroads of relationships—especially when breakups, children, and lingering emotions are involved. We explore whether it’s possible to combine material desires with spiritual growth. And we talk about how looking for the perfect partner is really not in our best interest.

With wisdom from spiritual traditions and honest dialogue, this episode offers guidance for anyone questioning whether to stay, to go, or how to move forward with integrity and purpose. Join us as we discover what it means to nurture real love over fleeting attraction, and learn how reconnecting with spirituality can illuminate the path through even the most tangled relationship crossroads.

Highlights:

0:59 Distraction of material love blocks our spiritual development
10:53 Should I stay or should I I go?
18:03 Put your spiritual life first
29:10 Looking for a soulmate
42:48 Marriage is a cornerstone of any society

Recorded on August 13, 2022.

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#93 – Traveling, Seeking, and Finding Answers – with Neil and Bella

Balakhilya and Ruben — Wed, 23 Jul 2025 06:47:20 +0000

We sit down with our guests Neil and Bella for an inspiring journey through travel, transformation, and spiritual self-discovery. Neil and Bella share their story of meeting on an Israeli kibbutz, seeking alternative lifestyles across continents, and ultimately stumbling upon the Bhakti yoga tradition that would radically reshape their lives.

From running up and down outdoor steps to finding discipline and joy in daily routines, the conversation explores how regular practice, association, and open-hearted seeking can help anyone—from outdoor adventurers to spiritual “seekers”—find meaning and connection in a busy world.

Whether you’re just starting your journey or have been walking the path for years, this warm, relatable conversation offers both guidance and inspiration for anyone looking to deepen their practice or just curious about what it means to live a more intentional, spiritually connected life.

Highlights:

(2:39) Regularity
(9:31) How Neil & Bella met at a Israeli kibbutz
(24:27) The prophecy of the horse whisperer
(37:11) Living in an ashram in Hawaii and eventually meeting Balakhilya
(52:16) Use whatever inclinations and talents you have in your spiritual journey

Recorded on November 23, 2022.

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#92 – Why Civilizations Collapse

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 13 Jul 2025 01:40:01 +0000

What actually caused the downfall of the great civilizations this Earth has seen? In 1934, social anthropologist J.D. Unwin made a vigorous scientific attempt to answer this question.

He studied 86 different cultures, including the Roman, Greek, Sumerian, Arabian, Babylonian and Anglo-Saxon civilizations. He had expected to find that monogamy had no real influence on these cultures. But by the end of his study, Unwin came to a much different conclusion.

He found that throughout history in nearly every civilization, sexual license and the decline of monogamy lead to irreversible societal collapse within just three generations.

Tune in to hear us break down his findings and explain them through the lens of the yoga wisdom.

Highlights:

(0:59) Why make decisions in life that are against the trend? Because it’s better for you.
(8:59) Summarizing Unwin’s study; when sexual restraints disappear, so do rational thinking
(22:45) Marriage is what holds the powerful force of lust at bay, but more and more people just want to be able to “lick the icing off the cake” and then move on
(33:30) Balakhilya witnessed the sex and drugs revolution of the 60’s and saw the consequences of a “whatever feels good” mentality
(46:10) The more knowledge we have, the better our choices will be—for the well-being of everyone

Recorded on November 12, 2022.

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#91 – Avoid Manipulation, See the Wolves

Balakhilya and Ruben — Thu, 03 Jul 2025 21:35:29 +0000

The truth is, we can’t stop being sheep. We are naturally inclined to follow a higher authority. So how can I navigate the terrain of spiritual life without being manipulated or used? How can I see the wolves for what they are, and how can I find a proper shepherd?

Today we discuss the concept of “sheep” and “wolves” in both societal and spiritual contexts. We explore the natural human tendency to follow leaders and the risks that come with it. You’ll hear how according to the Vedas, a qualified spiritual guide is essential—but we are surrounded by deceptive leaders or “wolves in sheep’s clothing”. Manipulation occurs in politics, media, and even spiritual communities. And so we need to develop a sincere, cautious discernment rather than blind acceptance. True spiritual teachers never exploit, as they are genuinely fulfilled and act only out of care. And a genuine follower remains humble, always seeking guidance rather than striving for independence or superiority.

Ultimately, what we need is to cultivate awareness, deepen our connection to the Supreme, and rely on authentic sources of wisdom and inner guidance to avoid being misled.

Highlights:

(1:02) “What the great man does, the common man follows”
(11:39) Manipulation within spiritual communities
(19:33) Behind the candy coated talks, there's really an agenda
(27:04) Without a teacher, you can’t grow strong enough to resist being manipulated
(36:50) We really can’t be independent
(42:00) A true teacher doesn't teach a sectarian belief system, he teaches the Absolute Truth

Recorded on May 23, 2022.

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#90 – Go Beyond Positive Thinking

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 03 Jan 2025 18:27:20 +0000

Is the glass half full, or half empty? The truth is, we won’t really be happy regardless of how we see it. Until and unless we start addressing our true needs, as the spiritual beings we are. We should start seeing life as it truly is—accepting both the good and the bad without dramatization.

Today we dive deep into the realities of life and the spiritual journey ahead of us. You’ll hear a heartfelt story about a friend diagnosed with ALS, that shows the importance of spiritual growth over worldly pleasures. We discuss how people often rely on positive thinking or temporary fixes when facing hardships, while true resilience comes from a realistic approach.

Highlights:

(5:44) Balakhilya buys rose-colored glasses
(15:15) Better laugh than cry - but there’s another option
(23:04) Sometimes difficulty is just what we need
(31:06) The world is designed to be imperfect
(36:10) We need to develop a higher taste

Recorded on December 12, 2022.

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#89 – Jesus, the Prince of Peace

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 22 Dec 2024 18:01:05 +0000

A compassionate heart, purified from greed and anger, naturally seeks to care for others and foster peace. As Jesus himself said, “The kingdom of God is within you”.

Today we reflect on Jesus' teachings - particularly the concept of loving one's enemies. Jesus himself wasn’t a promoter of divisive labels, such as religion, but rather a representative of divine truth. We should remember that “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.”

With this we wish all our listeners a very Merry Christmas. We hope that you will always be able to learn, grow, and embody Jesus’ message of love for God and love for all other sentient beings.

Highlights:

(5:27) You are a spiritual, not a material, being
(13:01) Love everyone, including enemies; respect freedom
(31:43) Acceptance of a supreme authority is essential for peace
(41:34) Transcendental intelligence requires knowledge and perspective
(49:23) Santa Claus portrays religion as a fake fantasy
(58:44) Merry Christmas, from Ruben and Balakhilya

Recorded on December 12, 2022.

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#88 – Simple Living, High Thinking

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 24 Aug 2024 07:11:23 +0000

'For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?' (Mark 8:36) For spiritual wellness, we need to embrace simplicity. We need to consider what benefits the spirit soul. And this episode will hopefully inspire you to do just that. We discuss how moving through the modes of nature—ignorance, passion, and goodness—is much like climbing a ladder to reach higher states of thought and living. Balakhilya contrasts materialistic life, driven by false promises of satisfaction, with a simpler, spiritually focused life.

Highlights:

(5:35) Enlightening story about an ascetic who got entangled in material life
(12:51) Getting stuck in the system through student loans
(21:23) Be more in nature and implement a healthier diet
(34:36) The pleasure of material life is always limited
(45:44) We need to put ourselves in a conducive situation
(53:47) What “higher thinking” really means

Recorded on July 13, 2022.

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#87 – Understanding Near-Death Experiences

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 23 Jun 2024 07:01:02 +0000

In the Netflix docu-series Surviving Death, a ‘non-believer’ film-maker explores the possibility that consciousness continues beyond life as we know it.

The documentary is intriguing and gives an important glimpse of the truth. But there are also a lot of misunderstandings, often based on speculation. In today’s episode we look closer at the real facts of death and dying, through the light of the Vedic teachings.

We emphasize how one should have a practical approach toward spirituality, and not get caught up focusing on extraordinary experiences. And we stress the need for expert guidance from spiritual teachers. The discussion extends to karma, the subtle laws governing behaviour, and making conscious choices based on future consequences.

Highlights:

(2:47) How to bridge the gap between traditional science and spirituality
(13:18) Attachments bring a person back from near-death experiences
(19:18) Ghosts explained; even when we leave our gross physical body, we still have a subtle mental body
(30:12) We are either controlled by love or by lust
(41:15) The demigod Indra was once forced into a pig body, and refused to leave it
(51:58) There is a real spiritual world; it’s not a fantasy

Recorded on May 16, 2022.

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#86 – Know Lord Chaitanya, Know God | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 16

Balakhilya and Ruben — Thu, 13 Jun 2024 08:00:14 +0000

Lord Chaitanya appeared 500 years ago in present India, and just like Jesus came to spread love for God. Today we discuss his life and teachings; an example of how we can all achieve spiritual perfection and happiness.

You’ll hear us discuss the difficulties we face in the modern times of wide spread materialism and irreligion. For these times, Chaitanya made it clear that chanting God’s names, known as mantras in the yoga tradition, is the highest worship.

We humbly ask all of our listeners to understand that the teachings of Chaitanya are applicable beyond any particular belief system. As we point out, religion simply means doing the will of the Supreme Lord.

Because ultimately, it is the desire of Lord Chaitanya, and ourselves, that you come closer to the heart of Jesus. By knowing, loving, and serving God.

With this episode, we conclude our 16-part series on ‘The Heart of Jesus’. We hope you have learnt something of value, and ask you to please write us with any questions or requests for further discussion/explanation.

Highlights:

(2:06) Who is Lord Chaitanya?
(8:19) The spreading of irreligion in Kali Yuga
(15:59) Chaitanya added more information unto Jesus’ teachings
(21:39) The most intelligent thing one could do with one’s life is chanting the holy names of the Lord
(31:28) Chaitanya came to spread love for God to millions of people, via the most powerful method
(46:28) The ocean of nectar is available to us right now, if we choose to tap into it

Recorded on February 26, 2024.

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#85 – The Persecution and Unwavering Faith of Jesus’ Apostles | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 15

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 03 Jun 2024 10:27:25 +0000

"Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.” - Matthew 5:10-12

Today we delve into the stark contrast between the darkness and light in the world. We share the extraordinary accounts of Jesus’ apostles, who held on to their faith despite the most horrendous persecutions. And you’ll hear us differentiate between their genuine faith and its polar opposite of fanaticism.

On that note, we didn’t make this episode to delve into the cruelty of how they were treated. Rather, we wanted to show how these apostles are the most wonderful examples of the power of faith, and the power of love. Examples that show how light always conquers darkness.

Highlights:

(5:53) Saul's conversion and writing of epistles
(9:25) Apostles preached the message of Jesus despite Roman persecution
(14:05) Why are genuine spiritual leaders an enemy of the rulers?
(19:23) How a roman soldier guarding James was overcome by conviction and chose to be executed along with him
(27:39) Jesus taught love, not salvationism
(34:41) How we can also become strong from gradual development of spiritual love
(51:24) A short story of how the most unlikely person can be the most interested

Recorded on February 19, 2024.

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#84 – Wolves in Sheep’s Clothing | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 14

Balakhilya and Ruben — Thu, 23 May 2024 18:37:51 +0000

“Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves” - Matthew 7:15

Today we delve into the essence of spiritual teachings, namely the importance of finding a true spiritual teacher. And how you practically can tell the real ones from the false ones.

We stress the significance of assessing the genuineness of spiritual teachers based on their actions and teachings. We discuss the role of a spiritual master as a connection to the Supreme Person, and underscore the necessity of surrendering to a living spiritual teacher in the pursuit of spiritual growth.

The bottom line is; if we don’t even try to find a spiritual teacher, we will be like a rudderless boat in the ocean of life. However, if we are not careful in this endeavour, we will not make it to a safe harbour.

Highlights:

(1:29) If God has a representative on earth today, would it be necessary for me to become his student?
(9:22) Guidance of a true spiritual master is essential to understand the truth
(15:33) Beware of the wolves, the false prophets, who come in sheep's clothing
(20:07) Developing a spiritual interest makes you vulnerable to the wolves
(28:30) "You shall know them by their fruit”
(37:02) A spiritual seeker's sincerity reveals the truth
(42:05) Wealth and spirituality: the goal isn't to enjoy this world, that's not what's going to make us happy

Recorded on February 5, 2024.

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#83 – The Bible on Reincarnation | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 13

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 11 May 2024 09:08:33 +0000

Reincarnation (and thus, karma) was taught by Jesus as well as the early fathers of Christianity. When that concept was removed, several strange concepts were put into place - that are still being taught. For example, the eternal damnation that follows if you don’t take the one and only chance you have in this lifetime, the creation of the soul at the time of conception, and the idea that our suffering is not really due to our past actions - but due to the original sin committed by Adam and Eve.

In this episode of Breaking Trail, we discuss the concepts of karma and reincarnation and their relationship with Christian teachings. We explore the idea that actions influence future outcomes, supporting this with Paul’s words from Galatians 6:7-9, "A man reaps what he sows," which serves as a cornerstone for understanding spiritual laws of cause and effect.

We examine the historical decision by Justinian in 550 AD to remove reincarnation from Christian doctrine, a decision that introduced major theological shifts and inconsistencies. Life is really a continuous journey of spiritual evolution, which aligns with teachings from both the Vedas and early Christian texts.

Highlights:

(8:16) How new concepts were introduced, such as original sin from Adam's disobedience in Garden of Eden
(20:39) All religions teach we're children of God, so what about animals?
(28:18) Reincarnation makes sense from different angles, given the contradiction of a loving God with a single lifetime chance
(34:21) Blaming God for one’s suffering
(40:35) Following the rules for spiritual life: obedience to a higher authority
(51:15) Freedom from karma through spiritual service

Recorded on January 22, 2024.

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#82 – Spiritual Guidance from Unexpected Places | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 12

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 29 Apr 2024 07:53:41 +0000

Today we delve into the Vedic story of Bilva Mangala, who was deeply attached to a prostitute by the name Chintamani. You’ll hear how, after a sudden turn of events, he accepted her as his spiritual master.

We discuss the importance of redirecting ones materialistic passions towards spiritual pursuits, and touch upon the Vedic concept of intelligence for attaining a true perspective. Balakhilya also shares biblical narratives comparing Mary Magdalene and Chintamani. We discuss themes of mercy and redemption with references like Jesus' response to an accused adulteress, “He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her”. At the end, you’ll hear us respond to a listener’s question about chanting silently in the mind.

This episode not only explores spiritual dimensions but also humanizes the path of spiritual growth, showing that enlightenment and help can emerge from the most unexpected sources.

Highlights:

(6:48) The story of the aristocratic priest Bilva Mangala and the prostitute Chintamani
(12:39) Unexpected sources bring needed lessons and help. In the story of the man and the flood, he rejects help in search of a miracle.
(20:43) Intelligence, according to the Vedas is the ability to put things in their proper perspective
(23:36) Balakhilya responds to a question from listener: “I often find myself chanting in my mind when I'm riding the bus, out for a walk, or doing other quiet activities. I'm wondering if chanting silently to yourself has the same quality as chanting out loud?”

Recorded on January 17, 2024.

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#81 – Real Prayer is Meditation | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 11

Balakhilya and Ruben — Thu, 15 Feb 2024 10:42:07 +0000

What is real prayer, and what has that got to do with meditation? In fact, Jesus was meditating constantly; immersed in service to the Supreme Lord.

Today, we explore the concept of uncovering one’s love for the Supreme Lord and the process of cultivating it through meditation. We discuss the purpose of the religious processes; namely to enhance individuals' devotion to God, beyond sectarian differences. We also read from and expand upon Jesus’ famous ‘Lord's Prayer’:

‘Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be your name,your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.Give us today our daily bread.And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.’ (Matthew 6)

Highlights:

(1:50) Jesus was in constant meditation
(7:40) A summary of Ashtanga, the eightfold mystic yoga process
(18:49) Don’t pray as a show; but let it be your private communication with the Supreme Lord
(28:06) I can’t make myself love God, but I can follow a process that uncovers that love
(34:55) The Lord’s Prayer
(44:13) If I don't forgive others, then I shouldn't expect God to forgive me

Recorded on January 12, 2024.

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#80 – Should the State be Religious? | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 10

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 27 Jan 2024 09:42:36 +0000

We see two extremes in today’s world. On one hand we see states ruled by some religious sect which are often characterised by violence, fanaticism, and intolerance.

On the other we have highly secular states that outwardly seem more peaceful, but where the erosion of the spiritual foundation means there is no longer any moral standard for the people to follow.

In today’s talk you’ll hear how America was originally founded trying to go beyond these two extremes. Its founders were Christians who had broken off from the Church of England, wanting to establish a state based on spiritual principles but without fanaticism.

Unfortunately, just recently, a new Speaker of the House was elected who believes that the Bible is the only way and the only truth. Not only has this nothing to do with real religion, but this fanatic spirit is the root cause of the societal divide and hatred we see today.

Highlights:

(1:14) About the new US Speaker of the House
(9:18) How America was founded upon spiritual values
(15:55) God is present in all His teachings, wherever they are to be found
(24:54) Should we separate church and state? Description of the spiritual qualities.
(34:56) Real religion means love; not a particular denomination. There is no room for fanaticism.
(42:27) Purport on Matthew 7:21-23: Why did Jesus denounce his so-called followers and said “I never knew you”?
(50:19) Jesus always spoke the truth, without being afraid. We should emulate divine qualities in ourselves.

Recorded on December 11, 2023.

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#79 – Find Happiness in Submissive Service | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 9

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 21 Jan 2024 09:12:14 +0000

Being a submissive servant of the Absolute Whole is really where the topmost happiness is at. And Jesus was a perfect example of that:

"During the days of Jesus' life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with fervent cries and tears to the One who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission" (Hebrews 5:7)

Today we reflect on the profound significance of recognizing our true spiritual nature and serving a higher power. We clarify the misconceptions surrounding being a servant and the true essence of serving God in loving devotion. And that is all encapsulated in the life and teachings of Lord Jesus Christos.

Highlights:

(4:14) Jesus is not God, but His servant
(15:59) Our function is to submissively serve
(27:03) Being controlled by love is perfect
(34:00) Jesus and John the Baptist
(40:59) God’s love for us is unconditional
(47:26) We like the bogey yogi idea of being God, because we are already trying to be God

Recorded on December 4, 2023.

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#78 – The Real Nature of God | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 8

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 14 Jan 2024 10:01:15 +0000

Are you real? Yes. And God is just as real as we are. And He has a real, eternal personality, just like us.

So what is God really like?

The Song of Solomon, for example, gives us a detailed description of His eyes, limbs, hair, and mouth. He is described as “altogether lovely”, and our “beloved and friend”.

And if we accept His true, loving nature, we open ourselves up to a most wonderful connection and relationship.

Highlights:

(2:56) The “big thing”: God. His reality and nature is an Absolute Truth.
(9:37) Biblical version of God’s appearance (Song of Salomon)
(18:35) The fleeting beauty of this world vs the eternal beauty of the Supreme
(24:48) Seeking God requires acceptance, love, and spiritual vision
(30:31) Vedic version of God’s appearance (Brahma-Samhita)
(35:03) The purpose of human life is to know and love God
(40:32) The beauty and taste is present in God’s names

Recorded on November 27, 2023.

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#77 – How to Have a Happy New Year | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 7

Balakhilya and Ruben — Thu, 04 Jan 2024 11:28:47 +0000

Phew, so we’re done with Christmas. If you think you’re spiritually advanced, go spend a week with your family. So why all the anger and hard feelings that many experience? And how come 66% of us feel lonely during Christmas?

As you’ll hear, there is a clear link between having a Merry Christmas and then having a Happy New Year. And that link is gratitude for the reason for the whole season, making Christmas a spiritual celebration instead of the peak of materialism.

Today we highlight the impact of disconnecting from spirituality and how it leads to loneliness and darkness. We need to focus on spiritual values and the teachings of Jesus; this will create genuine togetherness during Christmas.

Highlights:

(3:25) Article from CNN Health on loneliness
(14:33) Gratitude is replaced with emptiness
(19:06) Materialism kills spirituality
(24:51) Santa has replaced Jesus
(32:17) We all search for a home
(37:21) Christ-Mass is the real solution
(52:17) Don’t let loneliness rule you

Recorded on December 30, 2023.

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#76 – Cultivating Thankfulness | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 6

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 25 Dec 2023 11:31:31 +0000

Being thankful is absolutely essential to be happy and experience spiritual growth. As it says in the Bible,

“Let them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankind. For he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.”

Psalms 107:8-9

So why is thankfulness so powerful? And if I’m not very thankful, how do I move towards that?

Today we discuss all about thankfulness. We reflect on the historical origins of Thanksgiving. We touch on the decline in societal appreciation for spiritual values and the exploitation of Native Americans. And you’ll learn about the interconnectedness of determination and thankfulness.

"Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving"

Colossians 4:2

Highlights:

(5:16) Native Americans taught early European settlers all possible survival skills like hunting, farming, etc. Thanksgiving started as a way to dedicate that to God.
(9:48) Unpleasant life situations may help us move closer to the Lord
(17:00) On karma and good deeds, “Let them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankind. For he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.” Psalms 107:8-9
(22:58) Can no one come to God except by Jesus?
(30:13) True thankfulness involves living according to God's teachings without misusing his love.
(40:43) Thankfulness comes from a heart connected to the Supreme
(45:08) We can only have harmony in society if we cultivate genuine thankfulness

Recorded on November 23, 2023.

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#75: Your Wonderful Spiritual Potential | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 5

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 15 Dec 2023 22:35:56 +0000

When we surpass the illusions regarding our identity, we can experience that we are actually wonderful sparks of the Supreme Soul. We are spiritual, eternal beings, but we are also subordinate servants.

So what is the covering that makes us unable to reallize this deeply comforting truth in our lives? Is it possible that this covering is why we came to this material world in the first place?

Today we dive into the concept of false ego, illusion and misguidance, and we discuss how Jesus taught us to become free of all these coverings. We shed light on how Jesus emphasized the importance of loving God first before loving others, and how this love can be the guiding force in our lives.

Highlights:

(4:43) False ego took us to this world
(12:08) We can choose good or evil
(18:18) So I’m spirit soul. What now?
(23:47) Jesus always glorified the Holy Names
(30:04) Jesus spoke truth to simple people
(37:51) Real love starts with loving God
(42:46) Truth realized by chanting the Holy Names

Recorded on November 13, 2023.

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#74: The Difference Between Matter & Life | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 4

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 01 Dec 2023 15:58:52 +0000

“But we know that if the earthly tent, which is our house, is torn down, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. Indeed, in this house, we groan, longing to be in our heavenly house.” 2 Corinthians 5:1

Today we explore the distinction between the material and spiritual worlds. We delve into the concept of false ego and the eternal nature of the spiritual self, contrasting it with the temporary nature of material existence.

Drawing from spiritual texts such as the Bhagavad-gita and the Holy Bible, we discuss the cyclical nature of the material creation process and the eternal, unchanging nature of the spiritual world.

You’ll hear us discuss scientific theories such as the Big Bang and emphasice the importance of accepting spiritual truth. We highlight the concept of the spiritual world as our true home and discuss the idea of serving as a right hand man to God; just like Jesus showed, we are subordinate in relation to the Supreme.

Throughout the episode, we stress the importance of understanding and embracing the spiritual aspects of life over the material.

Highlights:

(3:48) Bible and Bhagavad-gita compared
(11:13) Material world mirrors spiritual world's eternal truth
(18:49) Trying to make sense of the big bang
(23:39) Spirit soul brings order to the body
(31:27) Temporary physical relationships can become eternal spiritual connections
(38:37) The spiritual sparks share God’s qualities
(43:39) Our position is to serve

Recorded November 6, 2023.

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#73: You are Not Your Body | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 3

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 24 Nov 2023 10:13:16 +0000

The essence of spiritual life is understanding that I am not made of flesh and blood. I am not my body; I am the spirit soul inside. The Bible makes this very clear in verses such as “though our outer body is decaying, yet our inner body is being renewed day by day” and “flesh and blood cannot inherit the Kingdom of God”.

Unfortunately, many times these verses are not fully appreciated and understood. Today we look closer at these verses in the light of the yoga wisdom. We explore our very essence and the purpose of it all; far beyond the physical body. We discuss the impact of materialism, the mistaken belief that "I am my body," and its consequences in society.

You’ll also hear us address the conflicts arising from sectarian viewpoints (us versus them) and emphasize the true nature of religion as harmonizing and based on love. We touch upon our need for spiritual food and the perishable nature of the material body in contrast to our eternal spiritual essence.

Highlights:

(2:41) Religion shouldn't create conflict, but harmony. Conflicts arise from sectarian viewpoints and thinking that we are our bodies.
(11:34) Be skeptical of both religions and current belief systems. Your happiness shouldn't be tied to materialistic goals.
(19:00) Jesus spoke in metaphors to help people understand. We need to speak according to people’s understanding.
(24:57) “We look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal” 2 Corinthians 4:18
(30:07) A deeper discussion on resurrection and spiritual bodies
(37:04) The Vedas explain the existence of two bodies: the subtle (mind) and the physical (gross atoms & molecules)
(44:25) The madness of the world is because people are starving inside. When you are starving, you’ll do anything to fill your belly.
(49:36) Transcendental sound are the spiritual, divine food we need. This is the daily bread Jesus was referring to.

Recorded on October 30, 2023.

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New Series: The Heart of Jesus

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 19 Nov 2023 09:50:07 +0000

Maybe you see yourself as a Christian, but struggle to find satisfying answers to your doubts? Or maybe you’re curious on understanding the concept of God and religion through a non-sectarian perspective?

In our new podcast series “The Heart of Jesus”, we help those whose hearts are ready to get a deeper understanding of Jesus’ life and teachings. As Jesus himself put it, “I have much more to say to you, but right now it would be more than you could understand.” (John 16-12)

Through study of both the Bible and Yoga texts, we debunk the many misunderstandings about who Jesus was and why he came. We explain Biblical texts from the yoga perspective and discuss questions such as “Who am I?”, “Why am I here?”, and “What is a real Christian?”

As you’ll hear, the core message of Jesus was love for the Supreme and love for others; the same message that all great spiritual teachers have been teaching since time immemorial. Welcome to come closer to the heart of Jesus.

#72: What is a True Christian? | Heart of Jesus – Ep. 2

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 19 Nov 2023 21:12:00 +0000

Today we explore the essence of Christianity and what it truly means to be a Christian. Going to church every Sunday does not really make us religious, and being religious is not a denominational label or a cause for division.

We are all children of the same Father, and acting upon that fact is rather what makes a person religious. As you’ll hear us discuss, Jesus didn't try to convert anyone but just spoke the truth to anyone who would listen.

Following in his footsteps, we explore the reality that we are spiritual beings having a human experience and discuss the true understanding of religion as knowing, loving, and serving God.

Highlights:

(2:36) New season exploring Christian teachings and meditation
(7:14) We follow Jesus' true teachings, the Absolute Truth
(13:44) Importance of unity and faith in God
(20:51) How the word “Religion” in yoga differs from worldly religion
(30:59) Jesus just delivered the message of truth, without pomp & prestige
(43:03) What does serving God actually mean?
(49:53) Spiritual sound has spiritual power and therefore purifies us

Recorded on March 15, 2023.

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#71: The Heart of Jesus – Ep. 1

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 12 Nov 2023 12:04:21 +0000

He is probably the most known person in the world. We hear a lot about his death, but know little about his life and what he actually taught. Some say he was a Christian, others that he was a yogi. Some claim he was God, others that he was a lover of God. And some even see his life as mere fairy tales.

Who was Jesus? And what was the heart of his teachings?

We explore the many misconceptions surrounding Jesus’ life and teachings and reflect upon the commercialization of Christmas and the overshadowing of its spiritual significance. You’ll get an insight into Jesus's humble beginnings, his inclinations toward spiritual matters from a young age, and the importance of glorifying the Supreme Father - not Jesus by himself. We discuss Jesus' focus on the kingdom of God and how he challenged people’s attachment to material wealth.

Jesus’ message was love, humility, and service to God–values that we all need more of in our lives. Regardless of our age, nationality, or religion.

This is the first episode of our new series ‘The Heart of Jesus’ that we will publish at least until Christmas.

Highlights:

(6:06) The appearance of Lord Jesus Christ; innkeepers provided space in an animal shed and Jesus was born in a most humble setting
(16:34) Jesus display of wisdom at young age stirred curiosity about his identity. Jesus is the son of God, not the Father Himself.
(26:12) “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free”
(32:05) The fear-based aspect of Christianity is a completely misrepresentation of Jesus’ core message
(44:39) “It’s harder for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God than to thread a camel through the eye of a needle”
(55:26) On Christmas we should honor Jesus, not least by showing love towards all others. Traditional values are sadly more and more eroded.

Recorded on December 18, 2021.

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#70: The Reality of Pornography

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 04 Nov 2023 11:13:27 +0000

In average, the first exposure our kids have to pornography is when they are 10 years old. This is one of the consequences of a a culture that promotes sexualization and indulgence.

And the fact is that sexual addiction is one of the hardest to overcome—physically changing the functioning of the brain—which is probably why the pornography industry is valued at over 100$ billion dollars per year worldwide.

From addiction to exploitation, today we peel back the layers to uncover uncomfortable truths on pornography, and offer real solutions. We emphasize the power of love over lust and the significance of taking care of our true selves.

Discover the benefits of a mode of goodness lifestyle and the potential for a complete personal transformation and growth.

Highlights:

(5:15) Greed, anger, and jealousy stem from lust, causing anger and unhappiness. People are increasingly angry, including towards God.
(9:32) In a conservative upbringing, you are taught not to agitate the sex desire. Today, that is seen as hindering personal growth and damage our wellbeing.
(20:05) Most people think it's not okay to restrict or struggle with addiction.
(28:32) We need to have a higher taste. And we need to apply the cure, even though it might be uncomfortable in the beginning.
(38:09) We might be addicted even to outdoor activities. And those addictions will keep us here in the material world.

Recorded on November 8, 2022.

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#69: Deep Work

Balakhilya and Ruben — Wed, 25 Oct 2023 15:36:03 +0000

Drawing inspiration from the book "Deep Work" by Cal Newport, we explore how our modern society's constant distractions and focus on surface-level engagement hinder us from experiencing meaningful introspection and genuine growth.

We reflect on the impact of technology, social media, and the lack of solitude in our daily lives, preventing us from immersing ourselves in focused, uninterrupted thought. You’ll hear about an interesting encounter during one of Balakhilya’s mountain hikes and learn the importance of deepen our meditation practice to tap into our true potential.

Touching upon faith and the erosion of traditional values, we offer insights on how to navigate the tumultuous waters of the modern world and find inner peace through deep reflection and connection to the Supreme.

Highlights:

(5:14) If we go deep, like the divers during a tsunami, the big happenings around us will only be felt like a slight nudge
(10:36) Without faith in God, people are weak and easily manipulated. Society is being stripped of its strength by removing faith.
(18:03) We need to train the mind and avoiding constant busyness in mundane subject matters
(27:06) Prioritize deep focus and alone time, diving into the mantras

Recorded on August 17, 2022.

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#68: What Creates a Mass Shooter?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 21 Oct 2023 06:54:53 +0000

In the US there has been average 2 mass shootings per day this year, and more than 25000 deaths from gun violence. What can be done to stop this escalation?

In this episode we look at the phenomenon of mass shooting on an individual level, and get to the root cause of what it is that actually creates a mass shooter.

As you’ll hear, the problem isn’t simply the guns. Mass shootings were not occurring as frequently in the past even when more households owned guns. The problem lies rather in a complete breakdown of moral and spiritual values in society which is leading to increased mental health issues, hopelessness–and anger turned outward.

Highlights:

(2:54) In 1980, more Americans had guns but there were no mass shootings
(7:25) In Balakhilya’s childhood they grew up with guns and hunting, but there was never any violence toward other humans
(14:59) Moral standards are essential for true spiritual life and societal good. Removing spiritual teachings leads to moral decline.
(29:41) Reading from ’The Violence Project: How to Stop a Mass Shooting Epidemic’ by Gillian Peterson. Early childhood trauma seems to be the foundation, leading to a pathway of anger eventually turned outward. Self hate turns against the group.
(43:16) Quote from Oprah Winfrey, "I think what people are missing is a core moral center. Churches used to do that. Until we can return to that, we will continue to be lost.”
(47:35) World leaders are not interested in and refuse to acknowledge the benefits of following moral standards and rules

Recorded on May 2, 2022.

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#67: Is Money All Bad?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 17 Oct 2023 06:58:32 +0000

Many people with a spiritual inclination feel that there is something dirty about money. Like money in itself is bad. But is that always true?

Today we explore the complex topic of money; its role in society and its impact on individuals' lives. Through verses and teachings from ancient yoga scriptures, we highlight the significance of serving a higher purpose and transcending material desires associated with money.

As you’ll hear, money is just “green energy”. What we do with that energy determines whether it’ll be good or bad, just like we choose what to do with the energy of our body.

So how do I keep sane in a world centred around money? How can I move forward in my quest for spiritual consciousness amidst material wealth?

Tune in for another perspective; the perspective of the ancient Eastern teachings.

Highlights:

(5:47) Money is just “green energy” like they called it at the Rainbow Gatherings that Balakhilya attended many years ago
(13:37) Material desires fuel an endless bucket list
(27:58) Ruben considered donating some money to a spiritual cause, but upon deciding not to, all the money was removed through a fine he got
(35:46) Greed leads to anger. Simple people find happiness with little material possessions; they live a simple life.
(50:39) Money is a hassle; if you don’t have it you’re in anxiety trying to get it, and if you have it you’re in anxiety trying to protect it
(1:03:31) Put money in your spiritual bank account; that’s the real asset. Your spiritual consciousness is your real wealth.

Recorded on May 2, 2022.

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#66: The Spiritual Journey of Phenop das

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 08 Oct 2023 10:12:30 +0000

Today we have a very special guest with us: Phenop das, an old-time friend of Balakhilya. He shares an incredible story that takes us from living of jungle fruits on the island of Kauai to finding spiritual guidance and discovering the true path to happiness.

Phenop recounts the challenges and encounters that finally led him to meet his spiritual teacher. And as you’ll hear, his journey is filled with unexpected twists and turns. He shares in a heartfelt way the teachings that resonated with his heart, and the transformations that took place within.

Through Phenop’s story, we explore the power of faith, the significance of chanting the mantras, and the search for happiness in the material versus the spiritual world. We unravel the mysteries of existence and discover how a simple desire to find truth can lead to profound fulfillment.

Highlights:

(3:52) Balakhilya and Phenop met over 50 years ago in a surf spot in Hawaii
(14:24) Phenop went to Kauai for a job and a place to live, but was rejected by the landlady because he was white. Then he and Balakhilya moved into an old house previously occupied by a sugar cane plantation manager.
(28:19) Even in the mist idyllic life situation, Phenop wasn’t satisfied. So he and Balakhilya together embarked on a spiritual quest that eventually led them to meet their spiritual teacher.
(45:11) Their spiritual teacher moves in together with Phenop and Balakhilya in “Om Valley”
(1:01:05) Material life is frustrating, requiring very specific conditions for satisfaction. By changing oneself to try to please God, spiritual life allows for real happiness.
(1:12:16) Chanting the mantras removes doubts, increases the motivation, and clears away confusion.

Recorded on July 22, 2023.

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#65: Conquer Anger from Within

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 12 Sep 2023 07:33:50 +0000

For you, maybe it comes out as frustration, irritation, self-pity or just anger at the universe itself. But in any form, anger completely disconnects us from our true spiritual nature. And as long as we hold on to it, we are hindered from making any spiritual advancement.

So what can I do about my anger? And why is it there in the first place?

As you’ll hear, because anger actually stems from the heart, the solution is to purify the heart. We need to convert lust back into its real state of compassion, care, and unconditional love.

Tune in if you’re ready for a profound reality check in your spiritual life.

Highlights:

(6:40) Anger leads to loss of memory and intelligence
(13:01) The reason there is so much anger in the world today is because everyone is controlled by lust, and the accompanying anger is always there
(20:27) Anger is a tool used for personal gain, and brings nothing but pain. True love is the opposite of anger.
(34:27) Forgiveness is the cure for anger
(42:12) The whole bhakti yoga process is about gradually purifying the heart
(49:53) Focus on your eternal life, and the more you can do that, the more successful you will be

Recorded on October 4, 2021

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#64: Respect Your Elders? – The Downfall of Upbringing

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 12 Aug 2023 20:53:55 +0000

It’s hard to overestimate the value of a supportive upbringing. An upbringing that teaches children the essential value of respect. When missing, as generally we see in today’s society, the consequences are disastrous - for generations to come.

In this episode we explore the impact of upbringing on a personal and societal level, and reflect on the effect that the technological revolution has had on our kids. Balakhilya looks back at his own childhood, a time when life was simpler, without the constant distraction of cell phones and excessive technology use. With this as an example, we uncover the essential values and principles that guided previous generations, such as how to bring up a child promoting respect for authority and a sense of belonging.

Join us as we delve into the various challenges of raising kids in a materialistic society, reflect on the lessons we can learn, and establish the changes needed for a brighter future.

Highlights:

(6:43) Parents in the past taught values, morals, and spirituality to their children, leading to a more disciplined and spiritually evolved society. The negative impact of modern technology and lack of guidance is evident in the current generation with issues such as disrespect, hopelessness, loneliness, and suicide.
(11:45) The core value instilled in Balakhilya during his upbringing was respect. We discuss how to make this a reality.
(17:05) Broken homes make it very challenging to raise children. Mother and father play equally important roles.
(23:33) Good parents with strong relationships built trust and unity with their children, leading to respect and avoiding conflict.
(27:07) The Bhakti teaching promotes respect for all life forms. It includes offering respect to others and expecting none for oneself, respecting animals, plants, and the planet.
(35:11) A person just needs to understand that there is a better way to live, a more happier life waiting for us. Even if I’m externally doing good, I need to look at how to improve on the inside.

Recorded on June 13, 2023.

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#63: Getting Older – What Can I Do About It?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 29 Jul 2023 19:15:17 +0000

They call old age the “golden years”. A time to rest and enjoy all the things you never had time to enjoy before. The only problem then is that your body is too old to enjoy all the worldly pleasures, and there is an increasing amount of pain and discomfort associated with living in this world. We have the same desires as always but a body that is unable to fulfill those desires.

This podcast is from we sat down for a reality check on old age. Because after all, if you know the truth, the picture isn’t that dark and gloomy. Old age is simply a reminder that death is coming closer every day. And if we replace our material desires with spiritual desires, understanding that satisfying our material needs will never really satisfy our hearts, we can transcend old age and truly be forever young.

You’ll hear us share an inspiring story about a friend with ALS who found solace and spiritual connection through the practice of mantra meditation, even when unable to speak. We also explore the scripture Srimad-Bhagavatam and the unlikely pairing of a young sage with an older king who sought spiritual understanding before his impending death. We underscore the significance of maintaining a healthy body and mind, as we share personal experiences and stories of individuals who have defied the limitations of old age.

Highlights:

(4:43) Old age brings physical and mental decline, making it difficult to enjoy life. Senses weaken, digestion suffers, mental facilities decline, and diseases like Alzheimer's appear. The golden years are not so golden.
(12:24) When you don’t feel good, you lose motivation and fall into a downward cycle of quitting exercising, not eating properly, and finally developing disease. Some of the vital ingredients for a good quality of life is exercise and good food.
(18:37) There are two types of desires: material and spiritual. As we age, we must accept the limitations of our bodies and focus on cultivating spiritual desires for growth.
(23:11) How a friend helped her dying relative leave his body
(32:23) It is a misconception that older people are always wise: example of the king who learnt the Absolute Truth from a 16-year old sage.
(44:14) Regardless of age or situation, even when unable to speak, one can still hear and think. Mantras are our best friend and should never be neglected.

Recorded on August 31, 2022

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#62: How to Follow My Heart in Life?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 22 Jul 2023 12:01:00 +0000

How do I know what to really do with my life? And how can I discern between material and spiritual desires when I try to follow my heart?

Tune in for a heartfelt and personal podcast, where Balakhilya tells the story of his finding deeper purpose and direction in life. We discuss the analogy of scuba diving: when we go beyond the shallow reef to greater depths, a hidden world is revealed to us which is not visible from the surface. Just like that, we need to dive deeper to discover the greater truth of spirituality.

And one of those deeper truths is that “following our heart” can lead us in the completely wrong direction if we don’t understand that we are not our bodies. Or if we think that we follow our heart by simply doing what we feel like.

You’ll hear us address the challenges that may arise along the way, such as losing enthusiasm or facing difficult decisions in life. By staying serious about spiritual life and seeking guidance from a higher power, we can navigate the uncertainty and find the clarity and guidance we crave in our lives - to really satisfy our hearts.

Highlights:

(1:18) What should I be doing with my life? Seeking guidance on finding direction from a Vedic perspective.
(6:26) Balakhilya initially considered a career in zoology, then marine biology, but eventually went to Hawaii for surfing from where his interest in spiritual life and yoga grew.
(15:34) The example of the hippies: stepping out of society isn’t enough; real spiritual understanding is also required
(21:16) Accepting one's essence as a spirit soul, not the body, is essential. Material pursuits do not benefit the eternal spiritual self. Following the Supreme guidance for true fulfillment gradually purifies ones heart and leads one in the right direction.
(34:14) Struggles in spiritual life have clear causes - lack of enthusiasm, laziness, bad association, or abandonment of principles. Success in spiritual life requires seriousness.
(42:53) The spiritual teachings are the buoy in a material world. Listen to the truth and practice chanting.

Recorded on August 24, 2022

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#61: The Two Spiritual Paths – Impersonalism vs Personalism

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 08 Jul 2023 08:10:00 +0000

Imagine choosing between coca cola and freshly pressed sugarcane juice; just like our tastes differ, so do our spiritual paths. Some prefer to relate to the ocean of light or the impersonal path, while others embrace the personal form of the Supreme Lord.

While at first the paths run parallel to each other—recognizing our true identity beyond the physical body and caring for the welfare of all—as we progress, a crucial decision awaits. Will we accept the existence of a Supreme Person or immerse ourselves in the ocean of light?

Guided by the most authoritative yoga texts, namely the Bhavagad-gita, we look at which of these two spiritual paths lead to the highest perfection. We shed light on the rise of impersonalism as a social trend, with common catchphrases such as “We are all one” that often overshadows a deeper understanding of spirituality.

Whether you're a true seeker or a curious observer, join us as we explore the path less traveled in pursuit of spiritual growth and enlightenment.

Highlights:

(4:17) Directly approaching the Lord for the final word; anecdote about fresh sugarcane juice at a market.
(11:39) We discuss the choice between worshiping the impersonal void or the Supreme Person. We need guidance from real spiritual authorities.
(26:52) Balakhilya shares a story from a lecture in Norway where two girls refused to hear anything about God in a meditation class. Regardless of whether we like it or not, God exists.
(31:04) The true spiritual seekers go against the flow
(35:49) We discuss the pitfalls of impersonalism and the conclusion that we are all God
(41:40) Impersonalism has become a social trend with very popular catch phrases, and it’s being promoted by the most influential people
(46:51) Individual sincerity leads to finding a perfect teacher who guides and satisfies our desire to find the truth.

Recorded on June 26, 2023.

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#60: We Need to be Perfectly Attached: Finding Shelter in the Eternal

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 02 Jul 2023 04:44:26 +0000

“I was in a concrete bunker when the world outside exploded in a huge nuclear holocaust. I was watching my relatives and friends melting into the ground around me, and I was completely helpless”

Reflecting on a dream Ruben just had, we dive into the topic of how to actually help others—and how to deal with feelings of insecurity in relation to this world. Many spiritual seekers think that non-attachment is the goal, while Balakhilya explains that it’s quite the opposite.

Yes, material attachments to friends, family and spouse have the power to break our hearts completely. But simultaneously, to actually heal and calm our hearts, we need to cultivate a perfect spiritual consciousness. Because ultimately, the only stability in this unstable world is our loving attachment to the Supreme Power.

Highlights:

(6:33) The material world is unstable and unpredictable. Life can change suddenly, like we saw in the war between Russia and Ukraine. We must accept this reality and find true stability.
(12:17) We have faith in the effectiveness of vitamin C despite lack of tangible proof, and similarly we should have faith in the spiritual process despite that we don’t have direct experience of it’s effectivenes
(19:53) The soul has inherent qualities; like water inherently is wet. One such quality is that we get attached very easily.
(26:39) We discuss the concept of attachment, and how we need to cultivate attachment to the permanent which is beyond the material dimension
(41:51) The spiritual world is perfect and filled with perfect love, free from pain and imperfections. We can enter there now, and inspire others to do the same.
(54:43) Balakhilya’s friend left the Bhakti Yoga process for several years to enjoy a sense-gratifying lifestyle, but was suddenly diagnosed with ALS and came back to his spiritual practices. He said the disease was the perfect disease for him—it stopped him in his tracks and made him become serious about life.
(1:10:00) Martin Luther King emphasized the power of light to overcome darkness.

Recorded on January 11, 2023.

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#59: Connecting with the Divine: The Real Meaning of Yoga

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 25 Jun 2023 08:30:35 +0000

Yoga has become increasingly popular in recent years, with people of all ages and backgrounds seeking its numerous benefits, such as reduced stress and anxiety, increased flexibility and strength, and improved overall health.

But what is the essence of yoga, and its ultimate goal?

In this episode of Breaking Trail, Balakhilya shares his journey towards discovering his true self and finding true happiness through Bhakti yoga. Or more specifically, how he met his spiritual guide and how that changed his entire perspective on life.

You’ll hear us discuss the importance of having an active relationship with the Supreme Soul, and how that differs from the impersonalist teachings that are often mistaken to be the final word of yoga. We delve into the roots and history of yoga, how it became popular in the West, and look at some of its many benefits.

Additionally, we discuss Jesus and his role as a perfect yogi and how following his teachings can lead to a joyful life.

Highlights:

(6:23) Yoga originates from Vedic teachings and has been around since the beginning of creation, as stated in the Bhagavad-gita. Yoga became popular in the West during the late 60s/early 70s with the rise of the hippie movement.
(23:27) Balakhilya’s spiritual journey meeting his spiritual guide: he was introduced to chanting and Bhakti yoga, which corrected his misconceptions and changed his outlook.
(33:47) Balakhilya had an enlightenment about being God, but was corrected by his spiritual guide who taught him about a higher truth, namely having a loving relationship with the Supreme Soul.
(39:41) The message of the material world is ever-present, but studying scriptures can provide the truth about the real essence of life
(57:43) Yoga means linking or union, specifically between the individual soul and the Supreme Soul. It involves harmonizing one’s will with and having desire to please the Supreme Person, leading to a perfect relationship. Work needs to be done on our side to reach that perfection.
(1:02:24) The soul's true essence is the need for love, care, and protection. A vague concept of “energy” by itself cannot fullfill this need, but a perfect and fully satisfying relationship is required, based on devotion.
(1:09:47) We reflect on the importance of humility in yoga and reference Lord Jesus Christ as an example of a perfect yogi.

Recorded on June 21, 2022.

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#58: Moving Forward in Spiritual Life: What’s the Next Step?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Wed, 14 Jun 2023 12:57:37 +0000

You’ve come to realise that you want to live a more spiritually oriented life. Now what?

This episode is centred around a question a friend of Ruben had for him, namely what the next step is if one wants to develop spiritually. What practices are important, and if I’d like to make some form of plan; how should it look?

Answering the question, we discuss the danger of relying on our senses to come to understand the Absolute Truth. We need to rely on authentic knowledge and perfect teachers rather than relying on our imperfect senses, the societal norms or what our friends and family tell us. Having plans and goals and plans is all good, but we need to ultimately tune in to the plan that the Supreme Person has for us.

Balakhilya also shares personal examples and gives very practical tips for daily spiritual practices such as hearing and chanting mantras as well as remembering that the self is not the body; which are the first three and most important processes of Bhakti Yoga.

Highlights:

(1:08) What to do after deciding to implement a spiritual practice in life? Knowledge is the first step, including knowing that we can’t rely on our senses.
(7:54) Material pleasures are temporary and not satisfying to the soul, exemplified by smoking and its negative health effects
(15:14) The first steps in bhakti yoga are hearing and chanting mantras and the Absolute Truth, followed by remembering; for example, reinforcing the truth that you are not your physical body
(26:42) The bhakti yoga process involves devotional practices, all fully structured and arranged by the Supreme Arranger
(38:43) Climbing Mount Everest costs around $65,000 to $100,000 and 12 people already died trying this year (5 more are missing). But despite the investment required and risks involved, those who are motivated will do whatever it takes to make it. This teaches us that desires are essential, and we need to increase our desire for spiritual fullfillment to be successful.
(46:39) We must ultimately surrender to the plan of the Supreme Person to have success, and be flexible and adaptable
(1:00:46) Cultivate beneficial desires for a better life

Recorded on June 12, 2023.

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#57: The Decline of Morality: Lessons from a Father Who Lived the Golden Rule

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 11 Jun 2023 08:10:00 +0000

“Treat others the way you want them to treat you” - a simple and powerful philosophy, but also just an empty philosophy if we fail to actually implement it.

In this episode, we discuss the decline of morality in modern society through the example of Balakhilya’s father, who lived by the golden rule and always upheld a high standard of moral living. Through this perspective we delve into topics such as forgiveness, false ego, and the importance of practice in implementing a spiritual philosophy into one's daily life. You’ll also hear us question the current societal norms and how the lack of adherence to biblical principles has led to chaos and degradation.

Through anecdotes and reflections around the life of Balakhilya’s father, we hope to offer valuable lessons on how to live a morally upright life and become a more compassionate and loving person.

Highlights:

(1:56) Cherry-picking the Bible makes you the decision maker, there's no authority
(6:01) The Golden Rule is a symbol of the topmost standard; we should treat others as we want to be treated ourselves
(12:06) Balakhilya shares how his father’s guiding light was the golden rule. He never treated anyone bad and always saw people’s circumstances before judging them.
(22:30) We discuss the societal and personal degradation which is caused by lack of morality and principles
(32:31) The golden rule requires spiritual empowerment to be implemented. Transcendental matters cannot be understood by worldly reasoning.
(39:08) On the 16th chapter of Bhagavad-gita: We're diamonds in the rough, and need to cleanse ourselves. Practice is necessary, and to take responsibility for our actions.

Recorded on February 15, 2023.

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#56: What If You’re Caught in an Avalanche?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 16 Apr 2023 20:09:08 +0000

You’ve just been caught by an avalanche, and you're now rock stuck underneath a deep layer of hard-packed snow. You're helpless. You're stuck.

There is nothing you can do materially. And thinking positively will not change the reality of the situation you’re in. But you're still you; the spirit soul inside the body. You are still feeling and longing.

So what CAN you do? You, the spirit soul, can find spiritual shelter and comfort through meditating on transcendental sound. This supreme protection doesn't weigh anything in your backpacking, doesn't cost anything, and never fails.

And it might just save your life.

Highlights:

(0:40) What are you going to turn to at the time of death? Transcendental sound gives real protection.
(12:34) Extreme skiers (and similar people) make huge efforts in preparations to minimise the risk of avalanches. But spiritual training is even more important, because at some point we will all have to face death.
(23:55) Like a fish on land who gets brought back to the ocean, meditation on yoga sound brings us back to our real home.
(32:41) Which yoga sounds, or mantras, should I meditate on? We refer to the topmost mantras with the spiritual potency to purify you and establish your long lost connection with the Supreme.

Recorded on February 22, 2023. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/56

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#55: Thankfulness Leads to Determination

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 18 Mar 2023 17:10:09 +0000

We have a choice to make in life. I can be immersed in meditation upon the things I don’t have - I can meditate upon how difficult my life is, how I don’t deserve the hardships that come my way - and fuel the fire of anger.

Or I can meditate upon the things I do have, and be thankful for that: we have a human body to use for spiritual realization, we have arms and legs with which we can serve others, and since you are reading this you have been given the opportunity to dive into the deepest wisdom and answers to life’s challenges.

Real thankfulness comes with appreciation, warmth, and care for others. And with determination to take advantage of that which you have received.

Highlights:

(1:50) If you want to be thankful, you’ve got to see the value in what you have received. Thankfulness comes with a lot of vision.
(6:38) A thankful attitude is a starting point. For example, we should be thankful for the food that allows us to keep our body strong and healthy to help and serve others.
(18:15) The first foundation of thankfulness is seeing our own faults, and experiencing that we’re not better than anyone else. The more unworthy I feel, the more thankful I feel for what I do receive.
(24:40) The second foundation of thankfulness is knowing that even though we’re unworthy, we are perfectly loved and are of limitless transcendental value.
(35:01) I should be thankful for all the temporary things in my life to the degree that they help me hold on to the things which are eternal, that I won’t leave behind when I die. Namely what's in our heart.
(45:53) Thankfulness is is a spiritual quality. Balakhilya shares a story about how he went to a Porsche Corvette show in the 80s to sell dried fruit and nuts, and met a truly thankful person.

Recorded on March 8, 2023. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/55

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#54: The Prostitute Who Became a Saint

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 05 Mar 2023 15:31:10 +0000

500 years ago in India lived a spiritual personality of extraordinary character and devotion, called Haridas Thakur. Due to their unfortunate team-spirit, both the Muslims and Hindus rejected him as he failed to abide to any particular process or religion. Joined by their envy of Haridas, they planned to send a prostitute to his home and defame him by catching him in the act of engaging in sexual activity with her.

Needless to say, their plan completely backfired. In the end, Haridas Thakur became even more glorified, while the prostitute became a great spiritual teacher whose advice was sought by people from all over the country.

This is a story of how to deal with unwanted desires and lust, how faith turns the most dangerous threat into an amazing opportunity, and how we can be of real service to others when we have a strong spiritual foundation. This is the story of Haridas Thakur and the prostitute who became a saint.

Highlights:

(0:42) The bottom line of this story is to show the result of having full faith in the process of chanting the mantras. Introduction to who Haridas Thakur was.
(7:08) What happened when the Muslims and Hindus combined together to try to defame Haridas
(16:45) Despite the fact that the prostitute didn’t at all come to Haridas for spiritual enlightenment (quite the opposite, she came to defame him), Haridas has mercy on her and remained in his cave just to give her a chance to be purified.
(24:25) It’s an illusion that satisfying our desires will somehow stop them. Desires will always come like rivers incessantly flowing into the ocean, but if we simply are undisturbed, like the ocean, then they will not affect us.
(30:34) The example of when some friends of ours gave people access to an unlimited supply of delicious waffles; material desires will never satisfy us but simply burn us out. However, engaging in a spiritual activity will gradually purify and satisfy us.

Recorded on June 4, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/53

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#53: What to Tell a Dying Man?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 27 Feb 2023 09:20:17 +0000

A relative to a friend of Ruben is right now on his deathbed, in the later stages of cancer. And sooner or later, you and me might also be in a similar situation—facing the reality that at any time, one of our loved ones will leave this world.

We might feel confused, uncertain, uncomfortable, or simply overwhelmed by emotions. But when this time comes, it’s time for us to lift ourselves above all of that and be of real service as that person is leaving this world.

This episode is a recording from when Ruben asked Balakhilya: What to tell a dying man?

Highlights:

(0:00) Ruben introduces the situation of his friend’s relative leaving this world at any time; there is nothing better you can tell somebody than the truth.
(7:41) ‘You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.’ Absolute truth is as purifying as the transcendental mantras.
(17:03) We need to start by making it clear that a person is not their body. No matter if we feel unqualified to share the truth, we need to try; a person hanging of a cliff will not care whether or not the person saving him is a 16-year or kid.
(25:08) Forget about your insecurity, trust the higher power to guide you correctly; Balakhilya have never given a talk where he afterwards hasn’t felt that he could have explained things in a better way.
(34:57) Every one of us are going to die. In society today, we just hide away the old people in homes so we don’t get to experience the reality of (and suffering involved in) old age and death

Recorded on February 8, 2023. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/53

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#52: Service is Our Natural Function | Who Am I? – Part 3

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 12:04:44 +0000

We learned from the previous episodes how we are actually an eternal spark of life, a spirit soul. Now what? Do we just kind of float around and exist, that’s it?

No - we have an eternal function, an activity in which we align with our true selves and find true happiness. And that is to serve others, and serve the Supreme.

Like Bob Dylan sang back in 85:

“You may be a preacher with your spiritual pride You may be a city councilman taking bribes on the side You may be workin’ in a barbershop, you may know how to cut hair You may be somebody’s mistress, may be somebody’s heir

But you’re gonna have to serve somebody, yes indeed You’re gonna have to serve somebody Well, it may be the devil or it may be the Lord But you’re gonna have to serve somebody”

So who do you choose to serve?

Highlights:

(0:00) We’re not in full control - and that’s how it’s meant to be. Balakhilya shares his realisations when starting on the yoga path.
(8:37) We read and comment on the lyrics of Bob Dylan’s song “Gotta Serve Somebody”. Service is our eternal natural function.
(18:20) For our tendency to serve to be satisfying, we ultimately need to serve the Supreme Person. And that’s not about joining a religion.
(29:03) The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. This can be a gradual process, and you will never come out a loser.
(35:59) The real joy as a parent is being able to serve one’s kids.
(40:37) This knowledge is called Raja Video - the king of all knowledge. It’s a new year; now we’ve got an amazing opportunity to choose to act on that knowledge.

Recorded on January 3, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/52

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#51: You Will Never Die | Who Am I? – Part 2

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 16 Jan 2023 10:16:16 +0000

We learned last week that we are not our bodies; neither our gross physical body or our subtle mental body. This time we dive deeper into the truth that we don’t stop existing at the time of death.

You, me, and everyone else - indeed everything around you that shows the symptoms of a life particle being present (including animals & trees) - are the life of the body. And live never ceases to be.

“Never was there a time when I did not exist, nor you, nor all these kings, nor in the future shall any of us cease to be.” Bhagavad-gita 2.12

This is the second part of a 3-part series on “Who Am I?”, where we dive deep down into our actual essence.

Highlights:

(0:55) Even though we can’t directly perceive the wind outside, we can know it’s windy through the symptoms (trees swaying in the wind for example). Similarly, even though we can’t directly perceive the presence of life, we can detect it by its symptoms
(5:53) How near-death experiences proves that we separate from our bodies through people being able to observe themselves from the outside while being “dead”
(10:04) At the time of death, the shape of our mental body determines our next destination
(16:24) According to the Vedas, everybody is afraid of death. But we can conquer that fear by knowing the truth; “Never was there a time when I did not exist, nor you, nor all these kings, nor in the future, shall any of us cease to be” BG 2.12
(22:07) All these true teachings are for people who want to know truth. If you meditate, things starts making sense and you start seeing the big picture.

Recorded on December 27, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/51

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#50: Your Body is a Vehicle | Who Am I? – Part 1

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 18 Dec 2022 08:44:45 +0000

“Perfection starts with the perfect understanding that I’m not the body. That’s a perfect truth, a perfect realization.”

If you don’t know who you are, how could it ever be possible to know where to go and what to do with your life?

Without knowing you you are, you cannot solve any of the problems you’ll face in life; not feeling complete satisfied, struggling with the temporary material body, feeling like you don’t fit in, and so on.

This is the first part of a 3-part series on “Who Am I?”, where we dive deep down into our actual essence.

Highlights:

(1:08) Understanding that I’m not the body is a huge step towards perfection in life
(5:06) Ruben’s sharing the story of a friend who was promised she’d be happy through getting a top-education and a good job. Having graduated and not finding a job, she feels like a big failure in life.
(16:18) The Vedas teaches that we are not material, but a tiny spiritual spark; a spark of life. That is the beginning to understanding who we are.
(23:17) There’s even a life particle in Ruben’s Christmas palm tree. You can notice the presence of a spirit soul through the apparent symptoms of life.
(28:56) If the soul is there, the body is highly valuable. But as soon as the person is not there any more, the value immediately disappears.

Recorded on December 13, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/50

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#49: Death of a Loved One – A Conversation with Family Left Behind

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 18 Jun 2022 13:15:33 +0000

Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things we go through in life. A few months ago we recorded episode #29 with Madhavendra Puri dasi as our guest, where she spoke about living with the terminal disease of ALS and facing death without fear.

This time we’re joined by a family who suddenly lost a wife, mother and grandmother, as Madhavendra very recently passed away. We feel very fortunate and humbled to be let into the inner world and feelings of a family that all live a yoga meditation lifestyle.

How is the ancient wisdom of yoga a source of shelter and great comfort for them? And why, despite this being a challenging time, can they simultaneously feel great joy and love?

Highlights:

(0:05) When Madhavendra Puri dasi left this world, it wasn’t a big drama but a wonderful transition
(6:10) Madhavendra’s daughter Shalie shares her story of living as a hippie child in Australia before Madhavendra was introduced to the process of meditation and took a 180 turn
(9:25) How Allan met and came to marry Madhavendra, and how he was introduced to meditation by her
(16:17) Allan shares how he felt when Madhavendra had left; he lost companionship but is also emboldened to become more dedicated to the Bhakti Yoga process, inspired by her
(23:20) Madhavendra’s health gradually got worse after being diagnosed with ALS. She did all she could to maintain a healthy body through diet and lifestyle, but she also did not go overboard; she trusted the higher plan.
(33:51) What was Madhavendra’s key to success, for leaving this world happy and fearless?
(40:09) Allan shares the story of Madhavendra’s last night in this world: Not wanting to disturb her, in his mind he begged her to forgive him for anything he’d said or done to her. And that morning she left her body.
(46:38) Madhavendra walked towards leaving her body with a clear focus, never with anxiety or fear; and she succeeded with her goal

Recorded on June 11, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/49

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#48: There is Hope

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 11 Jun 2022 09:51:35 +0000

There is really no hope—for the material body. Nor for the material utopia we sometimes dream about. But there is real hope for you, the spirit soul.

What is that hope? Coming to know about and gradually realize your true nature as eternally joyful, vibrant, and youthful. And we can move forward in that direction—if we choose to do so.

Highlights:

(2:14) Ruben shares story of how he and his family went for a concert tour for nursing homes, sharing the message of “There is hope”
(11:19) There’s so much difficulty in the world. But if the consciousness of the people could be elevated, we would overcome all difficulties.
(18:21) We are all spirit souls, regardless of the body we are in, and it’s our nature to be ever youthful and happy. We are all searching for the same thing—happiness, love, affection. And that’s where hope is.
(26:16) Reading from Srimad-Bhagavatam 2.10.43: “There is another nature which is eternally existent, without being occasionally created or destroyed. And the conditioned soul can understand what he should do and how his valuable energy may be utilized.” Our faulty understand of life is due to our being materially conditioned. The conditioned soul needs to know the truth to get out of that illusion.
(36:02) Balakhilya’s answer to the question “What is real hope? And where do we find it?”
(44:26) It’s not all or nothing; even a little advancement on this path can protect one from the worst kind of fear, namely losing the human form of life. So take one step at a time, and share what you’ve realized with others.

Recorded on April 25, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/48

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#47: How to Build Internal Strength

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 28 May 2022 05:46:04 +0000

We can always find excuses to not do what we should do. But if we’re wishy washy, we are not going to be successful in life. Building internal strength and determination is an absolute necessity, and we do that by following the time-proven and scientific Bhakti Yoga process.

Highlights:

(1:47) If we make a focused effort to apply the process of Bhakti Yoga, that will keep us in the mode of goodness and keep lethargy and sluggishness away. Some tips from Balakhilya: exercise, spend time in nature, sing, and stay away from eating meat.
(18:44) The two different kinds of motivation: motivation and self-motivation. We need to be honest about our weaknesses.
(23:05) The secret to be able to get up early in the morning—which allows you to get the most out of your life—is to protect your evenings. If you're wishy washy, you're not going to be successful.
(29:56) Balakhilya shares a story about his friend who has ALS. Suddenly, he got very serious about the whole process and started preparing for death. Others are teaching us to ‘enjoy life’ and ‘be here now’, so what we're presenting in this podcast is different than what you may hear somewhere else.
(37:05) The challenge to our spiritual life is on a mental level, because we're so influenced by material nature that just buries us, and we've been buried for a long time. It’s like a dead man trying to get out of the grave. Not so easy. And a key can unlock the door, but if you don’t put the key in, it doesn’t do any good.

Recorded on April 11, 2022. Episode link: https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/47

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#46: Facing an Ice Storm

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 14 May 2022 10:44:24 +0000

“The wind picked up more and more. And snow is one thing, because it doesn't hurt your face, but this was ice-water-snow. So it hurt your face that much you had to cover it all, and when that ice slush hits your glasses that gets totally covered as well.

But just that feeling of having the GPS-watch… I had the direction of the cabin, but for three hours all you could see was two meters in front of you at best, and we had to put our ski poles in front of us to feel what was up and down.

And all along you have this big, steep canyon to the right, with an obvious avalanche risk; so you don't want to fall into it. Always you always know it's there, somewhere to your right.

You’re forced by nature to become so small, so powerless. So you’ve got to have some faith in some authority greater than you, an inner compass that is not affected by the storm. In my case, the GPS. It’s tough, it’s hard, but at the same time it’s not; because you’ve been given guidance - if you just dare to follow it.”

Highlights:

(3:28) The story of Ruben skiing through an ice storm in the mountains outside Tromsø, Norway, in the middle of May 2022
(12:34) You can’t depend on the forecast (such as from tarot cards or palm reading), you got to have an inner compass or direction that is not affected by the weather
(17:14) Life is a storm; sometimes more severe, sometimes less. Even in periods when there seem to be no storm, the clock is still ticking.
(22:16) 2 kinds of people go into nature; the ones who wants to conquer nature, and the ones who want to harmonize with nature
(27:29) How Ruben met a reindeer on the mountain, who poked his nose onto the cabin window. When that spirit soul in the reindeer body gets a human body, that’s when the angst and expectations start.

Recorded on May 11, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/46

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#45: Lust vs Real Love – Part 2

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 01 May 2022 06:46:00 +0000

We are all hungry for real love, but nothing but the real thing will ever satisfy that hunger. In that way, lust is not bad, it’s just a manifestation of an inner spiritual hunger, a desire that comes out in a perverted or distorted way.

The good news is that all we need to do is to come out of the influence of the current of lust, and place ourselves under the influence of spiritual love. But that requires a decision from us to listen to and repeat the Absolute Truth - and thus remember who we really are. That is; an eternal spirit soul, starving for the nourishment of spiritual love.

This is part 2 of ‘Lust vs Real Love’; if you haven’t already, we recommend you to first listen to episode #44 to fully understand the difference between lust and love.

Highlights:

(2:45) Lust is a manifestation of inner spiritual hunger
(9:48) As lust is transformed into its natural condition of spiritual love, the person begins to taste not just the sweet flavour of love, but also its handmaidens such as kindness, patience, forgiveness, tolerance, humility, etc.
(17:53) Spiritual life means coming out of the influence of the current of lust, and coming under the influence of the current of spiritual love
(27:03) You can give a hungry man a cardboard pizza and it will fill his belly, but not satisfy his need for nourishment. Similarly, the spiritual hunger will be there until we address it.
(36:59) We need ask ourselves, “What am I exposing my eyes and ears to? What influences do I put myself under?” and consider how that will affect our consciousness. The ancient yoga wisdom gives us all the intel so that we know who and where the enemy is.

Recorded on April 2, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/45

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#44: Lust vs Real Love – Part 1

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 23 Apr 2022 20:59:39 +0000

Real love has become so rare that we barely even know what it means any more. What we think is love is often just lust in disguise; that is, based on mutual exploitation and sense enjoyment.

Consequently, instead of living the life we are meant to live—a life of inner satisfaction, contentment and harmony—we suffer from jealousy, anger, bitterness and anxiety in our relationships toward others. Regardless if it’s our partner, family, friends or colleagues.

“Therefore, lust and are quite different. Lust is like dense darkness, but love is like the bright sun.” Chaitanya-Charitamrita Adi-lila 4.178

So what is the key to opening our hearts and allowing the light of real love to enter? How can I know the difference between lust and real love? And how can I make my relationships truly nourishing and fulfilling?

Highlights:

(04:08) There word “sin” has been cancelled—there is no longer any right or wrong, everything you feel like doing is good
(10:02) From contemplating some object of the senses (could be anything from hiking shoes or a beautiful man/woman), attachment develops. From attachment (wanting to own it, enjoy it) comes lust. From lust comes anger and loss of memory.
(24:24) Like George Harrison sang; “Senses never satisfied, only swelling like the tide”. Lust is like a fire, the more you throw into it, the hotter it burns.
(38:45) Lust is just the perverted downward reflection of love, and to turn it back into its natural state we need to engage in devotional service
(53:31) “Pure love for the Supreme is eternally established in the heart of the living beings; it is not something to be gained from another source. When the heart is purified by hearing and chanting, the living entity naturally awakens”

Recorded on March 19, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/44

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#43: The Connection Between Food & Mental Health

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 15 Apr 2022 14:27:08 +0000

If we want to feel good and be happy, what we eat is one of the most important factors to consider. We all know that some foods are healthier than others, but fewer know that different foods will impact our mental condition in a specific direction.

Depending on what food we eat, we come under the influence of one of the 3 modes of material nature (psychological forces); goodness, passion, or ignorance. As a consequence of this choice, we may experience agitation, anxiety, depression, stress—or peace of mind and heart.

“Foods in the mode of goodness increase the duration of life, purify one's existence and give strength, health, happiness and satisfaction. Such nourishing foods are sweet, juicy, fattening and palatable. Foods that are too bitter, too sour, salty, pungent, dry and hot, are liked by people in the modes of passion. Such foods cause pain, distress, and disease. Food which is tasteless, stale, putrid, decomposed and unclean, is food liked by people in the mode of ignorance.” Bhagavad-gita 17.8-10

Highlights:

(2:46) We need proper information in order to make conscious food choices; for example, food in the mode of goodness automatically has an uplifting result in your life.
(7:06) The whole material world is comprised of three modes of material nature; goodness, passion and ignorance. We have the power to change which influences we are under, and one of the main ways is by what we eat.
(17:26) You're going to feel different inside if you eat mode of goodness food; “Foods in the mode of goodness increase the duration of life, purify one's existence and give strength, health, happiness and satisfaction” Bhagavad-gita 17.8-10
(29:34) According to the Vedas, meat should not be consumed. But if that’s what we want, we will always find the arguments to allow us to maintain our destructive lifestyle and give a feeling that “I’m okay”. The Vedic system of health is handed down since time immemorial.
(37:20) Certain lifestyles are going to have an effect on your heart; either by making it softer or harder. If you actually develop love for other living entities, you can’t do the cruel things that are necessary to produce the food that your tongue has become addicted to.
(47:08) Changing our diet can be a very gradual evolution towards more vegetarian foodstuffs. And suddenly you’ll start to see that actually, all that McDonalds has to offer is a decent bathroom.

Recorded on February 15, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/43

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#42: Discipline Leads to Happiness

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 11 Apr 2022 08:37:58 +0000

All genuine spiritual processes are based on discipline. And even if you strive for material success, you will still need to apply the spiritual principles of hard work, respect, discipline, and a higher goal.

This episode was inspired by Emma Raducanu, the 18-year old tennis star who won the US Open in September 2021, who explained that her success was due to her hard training and discipline at home, inspired by a grandmother who had such a determination that nothing could bring her down. You’ll hear us talk a lot about the role of parents, and how the training should begin in the home.

The fact is, we’ve become so afraid of hurting or offending our kids that we shy away from saying ‘no’ to and disciplining them. Which in the end will hurt them far more. We bring up the example of the so-called leaders of today’s society, who are simply grown up kids fighting with each other for lordship over the sandbox.

Similarly, in spiritual life, following any desire we might have or just “doing what we feel like”—without any authority, discipline or actual guidance on where happiness is to be found—will at best only take us in circles.

Highlights:

(05:05) The story of the 18-year old tennis star Emma Raducanu who won the US Open; spiritual life is based on discipline, something that is missing heavily in today’s society
(15:28) We need to dare to say ‘no’ to (and discipline) our children. If you want the highest level of material life, you've got to apply spiritual principles to achieve it; discipline, respect, hard work, and a higher goal.
(27:04) The functioning, active members of society are just grown up (immature) kids. When Balakhilya grew up, kids always had had duties to perform, work to do.
(34:19) How Bhaktivedanta Swami came to the hippie movement and introduced the no-discipline hippies into the world of real spiritual life, happiness and discipline
(43:48) The ‘Chant Anyway’ writing by Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakur; there will be ups and downs, and we need to have the discipline to keep chanting anyway
(1:09:22) In the spiritual world, everything is perfect; every word is a song, every step is a dance. And when we chant, we bring that spiritual world into our life.

Recorded on September 13, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/42

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#41: What Does ‘Spiritual’ Mean?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 03 Apr 2022 15:09:30 +0000

We always promote people to engage in a spiritual lifestyle, but what does ‘spiritual’ really mean then? Is it (or does it have to be) cosmic, filled with experiences of higher vibrations, or based on some drug-induced alternate states of consciousness?

Spiritual life really means a gradual evolution of soul toward the Absolute Truth, culminating in the topmost satisfaction of a loving relationship between the Supreme Soul and us, the spirit soul. In other words, spiritual life means experiencing a change of heart. And nothing else will truly satisfy us.

Highlights:

(9:04) The advertised version of spiritual life says it’s cosmic, filled with higher vibrations, and for it to be real there has to be physical and emotional result. Real spiritual life is a natural ecstasy of love, not a drug-induced alternate state of consciousness.
(19:22) We don’t just jump into an affectionate relationship with the Supreme Soul; it’s a gradual evolution of the soul. Spiritual life is not self-entered, but focuses on nurturing and cultivating that relationship.
(30:00) Regardless of our initial motivation, the process of Bhakti Yoga purifies a person of the unwanted desires of the heart. All that’s required is enough faith to apply that process to ones life.
(38:23) Transcendental sound works on everyone, regardless of whether we experience an immediate effect or not. Real religion means the relationship of devotion between the individual person and the Supreme Soul; which is beyond sentimental experiences.
(53:12) Don’t start at the highest goal of spiritual perfection, but let your goal be the next small step towards that direction

Recorded on November 15, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/41

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#40: Take Responsibility for Your Life

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 20:12:20 +0000

There are a lot of misunderstanding about what spiritual life really is. Including the idea that if you don’t care about personal hygiene or your appearance, if you are very poor, or refuse to make any plans for the future but choose to float around in a careless bubble of “be here now”—you’re somehow a spiritual person.

If we really to want to taste the happiness of genuine spiritual life, we need to learn how to live a life of full responsibility. There is no need to renounce the world. You can be a busy mother taking care of a demanding child 24 hour a day, but if you see that child as a spirit soul, a spark of the Supreme Soul, then you will be able to spend all those 24 hours actively working to fulfill your spiritual duty, spiritual responsibility. Thus helping your child toward true spiritual wellbeing becomes your spiritual life.

In this talk we take a closer look at what ‘responsibility’ actually means, and why it’s so essential for us in order to live a meaningful life.

Highlights:

(2:05) Spiritual life does not mean wandering around like a beggar, having no job and no obligations. Neither does it mean disregarding our material responsibilities and hope that someone else (or God) will automatically take care of us.
(12:42) Being a renounced person (sannyasi) requires a very high level of spiritual qualification, depending completely on the mercy of the Supreme and spending one’s time giving spiritual guidance to others. This was a system of the past, and most people who apply it today simply become a burden to society.
(21:31) Real renunciation means in the consciousness. The saintly kings of the past were extremely wealthy, but simultaneously not attached to any of that wealth or power; simply assuming the position of king as a spiritual responsibility, protecting the citizens from being overpowered by lust and anger.
(31:13) Some people think that you have to go to India to advance spiritually, which is just part of the illusion that, “I am my body”. The reality is that westerners are gullible, naive, easy targets for the many fake gurus of India who want to exploit us. Balakhilya shares a story from a public lecture he held in Queensland, Australia.
(39:29) What we teach in this podcast may externally not look spiritual at all. You might go to a factory and work for eight hours, coming home with dirty clothes and a tired body, but may be on a very high spiritual level. Some other guys are sitting around in the twilight zone totally in illusion, still conditioned by material nature.

Recorded on October 21, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/40

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#39: Shelter in the Eye of the Storm

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 20 Mar 2022 20:30:59 +0000

The storms of this material world comes in many forms; war, conflict, being hurt by someone we love, feelings of anxiety, loneliness, and so on. We try to find comfort and shelter in friends, family, career, prestige, or even in drugs and alcohol. But as hard as we try, the shelter we strive for always seems to slip through our fingers.

Nothing lasts in this world. So how can I safely rest not only my body, but my mind and heart too? How do I find shelter in the eye of the storm?

Highlights:

(4:02) There will always be storms in the material world, because that’s how the material world is designed; we need spiritual protection
(14:17) We’ve gone away from what really is necessary in life, and replaced it with all this artificial stuff. What if you knew that in 7 days, the world was going to end?
(22:28) Love is the one thing that we fear the most. But love is also the one thing that can remove all fear. Why is that?
(33:03) We need to take responsibility for our own suffering, and seek out an eternal love protection, an eternal eye of the storm
(40:24) Reading from “Gems of Wisdom”: suffering in this world is natural for the spirit soul. Just as us It is natural for fish to be suffering and unhappy when he's not in the water. What's unnatural is not the suffering but the spirit souls being here in the material world.

Recorded on March 14, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/39

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#38: Faith vs Fanaticism

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 12 Mar 2022 05:35:33 +0000

Due to so many religious fanatics (though fanaticism really has nothing to do with real religion), we tend to think that having faith is a dangerous thing. Actually, without faith, one can never make any real progress. But such faith does not come from joining a certain team and blindly aligning with whatever so-called truths are put forward.

So what is the process by which faith is developed? Easily summarized:

Step 1. Apply this to your life
Step 2. Take a step back and see if things are changing in your life, if your heart is changing
Step 3. Ask yourself: “Do I feel happier? Do I feel more satisfied?”
Step 4. What experience you have will indicate if this is valuable or not, and real faith may develop because the process works for you, not based on the fact that somebody just said so

Let’s take a closer look at blind following, the root cause of fanaticism, and the real meaning of faith.

Highlights:

(5:36) A real guru wants his followers to have their eyes fully open and understand what they’re doing, while a fake guru prefers blind followers
(16:50) How the yoga system views faith as opposed to in worldly religions; in bhakti yoga, you gradually come to directly experience and realize the truth, thus faith develops
(26:51) A fanatic is a a person with a lot of emotion and sentiment, but no knowledge. We can’t just plug in but need to actually take the teachings to our heart and do the work.
(41:58) The bhakti yoga process is a scientific execution of transcendental activities which enables one to return home. But we have to actually follow that process to have the results.
(49:47) In the Vedic society being taught spiritual truths was normal, and we have a responsibility to also educate our children in that field. If we all do our own work, the proper vision will be given to us.

Recorded on March 2, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/38

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#37: Achieve Real Progress

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 05 Mar 2022 22:57:13 +0000

Society is definitely making huge progress—going nowhere really fast. Material sense gratification has replaced spiritual growth, and is now the standard of civilization. We always try to get ahead of everyone else; whether it’s within sports, career, or family life.

We all need to take a step back and ask ourselves; “Is the world as a whole, the people on planet Earth, are we as individuals more happy?” When we do, we see that our striving for so-called progress takes us further away from the ultimate goal of happiness. The house of cards is falling down. And the further we move away from a spiritual foundation of life, the more we lose our spiritual values, morals, our spiritual compass.

In our life, we have to know clearly what the goal should be, how to reach our desired destination, and what hindrances and stumbling blocks are in the way. We need to know, “How do I know if I am actually moving forward in my life?”

In episode #37, we’ll take a closer look at the difference between real and apparent progress to be able to know whether or not we are actually moving forward. “The question is, ‘Which society is advancing?’ Advancement does not mean creating material ‘necessities’ unnecessarily and thus wasting human energy in aggravation over so-called material comforts. Real advancement is advancement towards spiritual realization.” Srimad Bhagavatam 3.21.52-54 Purport

Highlights:

(4:59) What we see as a success are often just material achievements, and they can never satisfy the soul
(15:53) The ancient Vedic civilizations were geared toward making spiritual advancement, but the material achievements were also unprecedented. There is no contradiction between the two.
(25:19) The material world is a dangerous place full of calamities. The duty of the sane person is therefore not to be disturbed by these calamities, which are sure to happen in all circumstances, but one should make progress in spiritual realization. This is the mission of human life.
(36:19) One must learn both the means to approach the desired destination and making progress, as well as the hindrances to such progress
(47:40) The biggest calamity of life is not earthquakes, floods, or wars. The biggest calamity is losing our spiritual values, losing our spiritual morals, our spiritual compass, our sense of right and wrong. We need to take responsibility for our life and help those who want to be helped.

Recorded on August 9, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/37

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#36: Who is a True Guru?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 27 Feb 2022 07:37:59 +0000

Did you ever try to learn tennis simply by reading a book? Or tried figure out physics simply through your own speculations? The need for a teacher is obvious in any field, and spiritual life is no different. In fact, it’s an absolute necessity; “The Vedic wisdom therefore advises that in order to solve the perplexities of life and to understand the science of the solution, one must approach a spiritual master who is in the disciplic succession.”

But to many of us, the word ‘Guru’ or ‘Spiritual master’ may be associated with exploitation, mystic tricks, and dominating over others. For good reason, because there are so many cheaters that misuse the position of being a teacher.

So how can we make sure we are not in the position of being the ones that are being cheated? In today’s episode we take a closer look at how we can actually know who is a true guru, a bona-fide spiritual master. And the signs & symptoms of a person you should stay far away from.

Highlights:

(1:56) Many people misunderstand what a true guru is—for a good reason, since many of the so-called gurus simply want to exploit others
(10:05) The perfect example of the relationship between student and teacher is there in the Bhagavad-gita, when Arjuna says to his spiritual teacher, Krishna; “Now I am confused about my duty and have lost all composure because of weakness. In this condition I'm asking you to tell me clearly what is best for me. Now I am Your disciple and a soul surrendered on to you Please instruct me.”
(20:19) The perplexities of life come automatically, without our wanting them. To get out from this predicament, one must approach a spiritual master who is in the disciplic succession.
(34:14) The 3 ways to check whether or not someone is a true spiritual master
(43:58) “A guru is someone who is so filled with bhakti, or love for the Supreme, and therefore love and compassion for all living beings, who he understands are part and parcel of the Supreme, that he sees himself as a servant of everyone and dedicates his life to helping everyone to find true happiness.”
(48:45) The story of how Balakhilya found and came to accept his spiritual teacher

Recorded on February 21, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/36

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#35: Does Truth Really Exist?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sun, 20 Feb 2022 23:44:04 +0000

In a society characterized by conflict and “hair-splitting sophistry”, we might be attracted to solve the discords by concluding, “Whatever, all roads lead to the same place!” But giving in to wishy-washy philosophy in order to avoid conflict is not being truthful. And it won’t do anyone any good. Jesus said, “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free”. And the opposite is equally true; without truth, we are imprisoned.

So how can we understand the idea of absolute truth? Is everything just relative to our perspective, or are there some universal axioms that the world runs by? And perhaps more importantly, the question of epistemology; if there is a truth, how can I come to know it?

Whether you are looking for real relief from a stressful everyday life or you are looking for the deeper meaning to life, this episode will inspire you to move forward. And inward.

Highlights:

(5:45) The practice of Bhakti Yoga purifies us so that we begin to appreciate the truth, because now there's an actual direction to our life
(15:21) You don’t have to experience everything directly to know that it’s true; you can feel it in your heart
(24:11) A true scientist just wants to find out the final truth, without agendas. Similarly, the great teachers of the past, like Jesus, were just presenting the truth; they didn’t come to start a new religion.
(36:04) The story of how Balakhilya started toward yoga & meditation: by hearing someone share pieces of the truth
(44:37) “Seek and you shall find, knock and it will be opened unto you.” The four types of people who come to know the truth; the inquisitive, the distressed, those in need of money, and the wise.
(48:53) Finding the truth starts with an honest desire, without that we will drown in the ocean of information and not know up from down

Recorded on September 27, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/35

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#34: Having Fun is the Goal | Chandra Schuett

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 11 Feb 2022 23:29:06 +0000

Chandra is an exceptionally talented, well-spoken freelance type of guy; yet incredibly humble and reflective. The words we used the most in this episode was Fun, followed by Skiing - Chanting - Feel - Nice - Friends - Smoothies - Biking. Tells you something about the guy.

Only 23 years old, he has already been invited to go to the Olympic Games as part of the Canadian Taekwondo team (an invitation he declined, thinking “there are so many other things you can do”), had a brief career as a model/actor, built a 630m2 retreat center together with his father, and traveled all over the world. In winter it’s all about skiing, in summer all about BMX and mountain biking.

Chandra’s parents are old-time friends of Balakhilya’s, and Chandra grew up with the Bhakti-yoga lifestyle. He is all about having fun, but thanks to his upbringing always understood that the pleasures of this world are fleeting and always mixed with some degree of pain. One second you ski in the most amazing powder, the next you are in total anguish due to a dislocated shoulder;

“My parents have always been able to give me an answer, or a solution, with this process, and always shown me that there's a way to be happy while you're in this material world. The process shows it, and you can feel it in your heart. When you apply it, it speaks for itself. You feel it.”

Highlights:

(3:08) Balakhilya introduces you to Chandra; a talented yet humble freelance fun-seeker
(14:43) The story of how Chandra was selected to join the Canadian Taekwondo team for the Olympic Games in 2012
(22:45) Everyone is trying to have fun. The lifestyle of meditation gives a genuine, heart-felt fun to carry us through the ups and downs of the worldly fun.
(32:12) The importance of having to work for what you’re getting, and how chanting brings us together; Chandra’s feelings around his upbringing, with parents that both follow a Bhakti-yoga lifestyle
(42:36) How Chandra and his family made it possible to build a 630m2 retreat center and run a smoothie business together: “Working with each other and finding a happy means to chant with each other, and finding the higher goal which is more important than arguing with each other.”
(1:07:27) To Chandra, Breaking Trail means breaking free from the materialistic life, to find what your goal is, to know; “This is what’s going to be important for me to be able to be truly happy and have fun”.

Recorded on February 7, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/34

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#33: Is Hell for Real?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 04 Feb 2022 18:57:41 +0000

“Follow us, surrender, or you will go to hell!” The concept of Hell is often used as a way to control and instil fear in people. For some people (like Ruben), this faulty presentation of hell may lead to a full rejection of anything that has to do with religion. After all, why would a loving father punish his obstinate children with a torment that has no end?

Tune in for a full picture of the concept of hell; an explanation that leaves no blind spots, and no room for speculation. Because like Ruben, you deserve to know the truth.

Highlights:

(4:35) The faults and misunderstandings in the popular view of heaven & hell (often based on instilling fear in people)
(12:30) The story of Ruben leaving his religious faith behind at a Christian surf camp in New Zealand in 2009, when the idea of eternal hell didn’t match his understanding of unconditional love
(22:14) The material world is arranged with planets with celestial pleasures (heavenly planets), intermediate planets with both pain and pleasure, as well as lower hellish planets where suffering and pain is predominant. The law of karma decides where you go after you leave your current body.
(33:43) Our idea of going to heaven (and avoiding hell) are often completely self-centered, based on material enjoyment. And that doesn’t satisfy the soul’s need for spiritual love.
(41:43) We should all ask ourselves: is the pleasure worth the pain? If we act without being guided by a superior authority, we will remain lost. We need a process to help us replace serving ourselves to serving others.
(52:54) Why lust is the gateway to hell, and how we can turn that force into its proper direction, namely love. Reestablishing our lost spiritual connection with the Supreme makes us experience heaven right here and now.

Recorded on January 22, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/33

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#32: Have Faith in 2022

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 28 Jan 2022 09:27:36 +0000

Let’s really make 2022 a new year; not just a different year. In today’s episode we hope to give you courage and faith to cross the bridge of change, toward a life of genuine happiness and inner fulfilment. We touch on various topics such as the importance of thankfulness, how internal motivation is really the only way forward, and how we need to get out of the ‘I am the number one’-consciousness to really be happy.

Remember, every thousand-mile journey starts with one small step. And maybe this episode is that one small step for you.

Highlights:

(5:48) Behind the scenes it’s a different story; Lindsey Vonn struggling with depression
(12:16) Do we choose to really have a new year; or just have the same old stuff but a different year?
(21:53) The story of Ruben’s first (and last) New Years resolution in 2016
(32:06) If a person really wants to have a new 2022, they’ve got to seek out good association, spiritual association
(38:24) It might take you a long time to cross the bridge of change. But you’ve got to just keep moving forward.
(44:07) The main reasons why people fail in their New Years resolutions, and how that translates into one's spiritual life

Recorded on January 17, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/32

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#31: How to Stop Faultfinding

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 06:00:00 +0000

We all tend to find faults in others, instead of seeing (and working with) our own shortcomings. And the basic problem is us expecting perfection in the material world. We think that if other people and all material situations are as ideal as we want them to be, then we will be happy. Which couldn’t be further from the truth.

In this talk, Balakhilya and Ruben discuss how by following a spiritual path (and shifting our association) we gradually develop an aversion to faultfinding. Instead of looking at the faults of others we become aware of our own imperfections.

As you’ll hear, faultfinding goes completely against our spiritual wellbeing, since it feeds the false ego and false prestige. Passing judgement on others, we are really only passing judgement on ourselves.

We also look deeper at the topic of introspection; how being honest with ourselves is crucial in the process of spiritual development. Seeing our faults and admitting them, we’re able to pray for help to overcome our faults. And through meditation cleanse our hearts from the thorn of this faultfinding tendency.

Highlights:

(5:40) We are attracted to finding faults with others, as we try to elevate ourselves to a higher position than them
(16:01) Faultfinding is an avenue for self aggrandizement, and it feeds the false ego and false prestige; which are all enemies of the soul, of ourselves. And it makes for disharmony and discord in society
(23:52) Being in the age of Kali Yuga, we are influenced in a very destructive way. But if I don't think I have any problem, I don't think I need to be cured.
(34:11) The story of a king choosing which one of his two sons he should hand his kingdom to; the good man sees the good and all the bad man sees the bad
(41:41) Becoming a "mental hypochondriac" is not the solution either, just focusing on "I'm so bad”. It’s still self-centred.
(45:24) We cannot overcome our faults through willpower or a decision to be a better person. Our work is instead to make it so that I'm in contact with a cleansing agent; a purifying lifestyle.

Recorded on August 23, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/31

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#30: Hate to Burst Your Bubble, But…

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 14 Jan 2022 20:22:19 +0000

We all try to find a stable, comfortable situation in this world, and make that our ‘bubble’. The problem is, this world is ever-changing. And so as my bubbles burst, as they inevitably do, we may feel like the rug is pulled out from under our feet; whether it be a relationship that ends, a loved one that dies, that we lose our job, or we face instability and conflict in our society.

In this talk Balakhilya reflects on how the bubble of his seemingly stable situation in Kazakhstan suddenly burst and the reality of this world came forward; being a place of conflict, chaos and confusion. If you tune in, you might find that some of your illusions about the world shatter, and are replaced with a profound and stable understanding who you actually are, what your place in this world is, and where to find the bullet-proof, never-bursting bubble.

Highlights:

(1:45) Balakhilya’s experience of the bubble bursting in what he thought was the peaceful and calm city of Almaty, Kazakhstan
(9:58) Covid-19 broke a lot of bubbles. And that’s life in the material world; it’s under constant change.
(21:41) As long as I think I'm the body, there's really no place in that philosophy for spiritual truth
(30:06) To actually make a change, we need to live a life that makes us able to grow spiritually. Simply engage in the process and you'll get what you're looking for.
(40:11) We can’t prevent the bubbles to burst, but we can change our attitude and consciousness.

Recorded on January 12, 2022. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/30

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#29: Living with a Terminal Disease | Madhavendra Puri dasi

Balakhilya and Ruben — Sat, 08 Jan 2022 10:22:59 +0000

9 years ago, she was diagnosed with the terminal disease of ALS. But that hasn’t stopped her from leading a meditation center in Toronto, Canada, and inspiring countless of people with her positive outlook and focus on the internal world. As she says herself, “the disease is an opportunity to turn within”.

In today's talk you get to meet and learn from Madhavendra Puri dasi, an old-time friend of Balakhilya. You’ll hear us discuss how real life is the interior world of spiritual life; when our external life starts collapsing we need to have an internal world to take refuge in—we need to know that we are not the body which is falling apart. But for that to happen, we need to come to a point of having a change in heart.

You’ll hear stories from both Madhavendra’s and Balakhilya’s travels around the world, sharing the knowledge they’ve received with others. We speak about how actually spiritual life starts when we come to the platform of realizing our vulnerability and inability to face the difficult situations of the world on our own.

Through their different stories, Ruben, Madhavendra, and Balakhilya all came to the same conclusion—there’s something beyond all of this. The nature of the world is to change, and they all found a place to find comfort.

Highlights:

(1:40) Common interests bring friends together; meet Madhavendra Puri dasi, bhakti yoga practitioner, traveler, and a long-time friend of Balakhilya
(12:54) When diagnosed with an illness, many are lost and scared as their external world deteriorates. Madhavendra shares her experiences with finding peace internally.
(19:19) By understanding that we are eternal spirit soul, we can truly help others who might be experiencing the pain of their body deteriorating - whether it's cancer, ALS, or old age
(23:58) “Have mantra, will travel” Hear some stories from Madhavendra and Balakhilya during their travels, sharing knowledge, practicing; learning that what’s happening internally is the most important
(32:00) We can find a weird comfort escaping into our own misery, but self-pity is a form of anger. Changes need to take place internally, at the heart level; and facing these truths will help us in everyday life.
(44:07) Jumping back in time to Madhavendra’s journey as a “child of the 60s”, Balakhilya and Madhavendra share what it was like in simpler times, and their experiences during the era of George Harrison and the Vietnam War
(1:00:17) Through their different stories, Ruben, Madhavendra, and Balakhilya all came to the same conclusion —there’s something beyond all of this. The world’s nature is to change, and they all found a practical place to find comfort.

Recorded on November 22, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/29

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#28: Finding Home

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 03 Jan 2022 08:17:34 +0000

What if you knew you had a friend somewhere in this world who had a sanctuary, his very own place, a piece of land that he himself owned, and where none of the world's turbulence and conflict could reach?

Where the people who lived there were just nice to each other, listened and respected each other. Where peace, tranquility and happiness prevailed. A place you knew you could go to if things got too crazy, a place you were welcome to, safe. Free. In this place, you did not have to worry anymore, did not have to plan, brace yourself or protect yourself from everything possible; personal attacks, physical attacks, natural disasters, or attacks by corrupt leaders.

What if you learned that these burdens of yours did not have to be on your shoulders anymore, day in and day out? That they’re not yours to solve. That the world around you is happening anyway, and that you cannot do anything about it anyway. That true shelter exists. It is not an illusion. It exists.

But the truth is that “There is no place on earth like home”. Home is not to be found ‘on earth’.

This talk sprang from Ruben’s intense feeling of longing for home when he especially sees snowy mountain peaks in the horizon, feeling that “The mountains are calling, I must go”. What is this calling, where does it come from, and does such a place exist where there is no worry, fear, or anxiety? Where is home?

In our first episode of 2022, we invite you to join the greatest and most important journey of all, the journey of finding home.

Highlights:

(2:37) The real meaning of ’The mountains are calling, I must go’. You can’t long for something that does not exist.
(7:05) The search for the perfect love is intrinsic to us. Story of the father of a friend of Balakhilya leaving his body, saying “The game is over, I’m going home now.”
(16:22) Why we might feel like “I’ve been here before”; the material world is just the temporary mirror reflection of the real thing, the spiritual world.
(25:05) We try to find our roots through journeys back in history, but to really understand our roots we need to go back to the truth that I’m a spirit soul
(37:55) We have a real home. The biblical story of the prodigal son; love is fathomless, it has no bottom
(50:10) Home is where the heart is—with the Supreme Being—because that’s where the heart really is. We’ve just forgotten that.

Recorded on August 30, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/28

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#27: Adapting to a Changing World

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 24 Dec 2021 13:53:07 +0000

The world around us is changing rapidly. And many of us feel great stress & worry as a result. But actually, feeling stressed and in anxiety in a changing world is natural for the spirit soul. Just as it is natural for fish to be suffering and unhappy when he is not in the water.

So how to truly find a shelter in the storm? How can I live fearlessly, deal with the grief of losing someone, or find myself in the middle of all of this? In today’s talk we discuss how to adapt to a changing world;

“What is unnatural is not the suffering, but the spirit soul’s being here in the material world. What is unnatural is not that the soul is unhappy here. But the fact that the soul is here”

Highlights:

(1:55) We’ve got to learn to deal with different changes on different levels; hardships in life come in many different ways.
(7:53) Spiritual life is a gradual process that requires acceptance and knowledge coming from someone who is a real authority
(13:40) “What's unnatural is not the suffering, but the spirit soul’s being here in the material world.”
(22:52) Mercy, care and concern for others is part of the soul's true nature. But we need to operate with true love and compassion without getting attached.
(33:36) Society should be oriented in a direction of harmonising with the Absolute Truth and with nature. Harmony, peace, freedom from fear, etc, doesn't come by following a self-centered lifestyle.
(43:18) Materially adjusting to change is not enough, there needs to be a knowing that “I’m spirit soul, I’m not the body”
(46:57) If you want to change, you need to adapt a new way of feeling, thinking, and willing; and engage in lifestyle practices that will bring about the change

Recorded on December 4, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/27

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#26: Finding a Spiritual Guide – Part 2

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 10 Dec 2021 08:46:59 +0000

It sometimes seems like the whole world is going full speed off track. With no proper spiritual leadership guiding the way forward, moral standards have been replaced by ‘just do what you feel like’. In part 2 of Finding a Spiritual Guide, we discuss how you and me can be lights in the world, an inspiration for others.

As an ancient Vedic text states, “Whatever action is performed by a great man, common men follow in his footsteps. And whatever standards he sets by exemplary acts, all the world pursues” (Bhagavad-gita As It Is, 3:21).

Highlights:

(5:30) Moral guidelines & rules enable us to make a free choice in which direction we want to go, instead of automatically being pulled toward a negative direction
(7:02) All too often when we interact with people, we're trying to draw attention to ourselves. We should instead communicate; “Put your attention on spiritual growth and accomplishments, make this your horizon.”
(12:23) The story of professional Slovenian snowboarder Marko Grilc, who recently died in an accident during filming. At the time of death, what have we accomplished?
(16:52) An action is worth 1000 words; how we can be a force for good by being an influencer of positive values & morals.
(19:43) As the world is designed to be imperfect, there’s no such thing as material perfection
(24:33) Understanding “I’m not the body” is a huge step toward spiritual perfection

Recorded on November 29, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/26

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#25: Finding a Spiritual Guide – Part 1

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 06 Dec 2021 11:29:19 +0000

Polar night has just started at Ruben’s house in Tromsø, Norway—the sun is gone and will be back by the end of January again. This, together with the outdoor temperatures of -18°C, inspired us to cosy up about the fireplace and speak about how to be able to maintain an inner warmth through cold and dark times, the importance of being adaptable in this world and how we tend to project happiness on things that really have no pleasure in them.

This all leads up to an inspiring story and discussion around how Balakhilya met his spiritual guide on a remote island in Hawaii, living in an old sugar cane camp house in the jungle with no running water or electricity (but with vegetables trees all around for his sustenance). And like he says, he realized that “… as far as the philosophy, and the direction in life, and understanding what is true and what is not—when I met these teachings, I just knew; ‘This is perfect. This has got all the answers, this includes everything I need to know. I don't have to look for anything else. I don't have to change.’”

You’ll hear us talk about how finding a spiritual guide is all about accepting that the Supreme Soul will arrange for to come into contact with such a person, at the proper time for us. We have to be able to trust in the higher plan, but also dare to actually trust in another person—which may be hard, since it seems like at soon as we start trusting somebody, we get burnt.

We end by speaking about how spiritual life is the real adventure; an exhilarating, ever-fresh, increasingly satisfying journey toward actual life.

Highlights:

(4:41) Polar night has come to Tromsø; no sun for 2 months to come
(9:06) In material life, we project pleasure on objects, situations, or relationships to actually experience pleasure there. But it’s just another dream, another projection.
(11:05) We need wisdom to be able to know which things I need to put effort into changing in my life, and which things I just have to let be
(16:58) How Balakhilya came to receive this way of life, living in the jungle on a remote Hawaiian Island in a sugar cane camp house without electricity or running water
(23:40) Finding a spiritual guide is all about understanding that the Supreme Soul in within our hearts, and when he have a desire to come closer to the Absolute Truth; it will be arranged
(28:54) How to make it so life is not gray and boring; embark the adventure of spiritual life and let the sun of internal happiness shine, though it disappears on the horizon

Recorded on November 29, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/25

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#24: Misuse of Human Life

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 26 Nov 2021 08:33:25 +0000

It is a fact that we humans have wrecked havoc on the planet. Not only are we causing irreversible changes to ecosystems all over the world, but also created societies plagued by greed, anger, and division. These are all results of our misusing the opportunity we have in the human form of life.

In today’s talk we speak about how humans have power above all other creatures, and it can be used for either good or bad. What separates humans from animals is our capacity for spiritual realization—escaping the entanglement of material existence, and working for the wellbeing of all sentient beings on this planet. The fact is, we are eternal spirit souls in temporary material bodies. But when we identify with the material body, this immediately produces conflict—We struggle with material nature because we don't want to die.

Tune in and hear how and why scriptures advise us not to waste the human form of life. Actually, this life form is very rare; in each and every plant and animal there is a person, a living entity. The souls transmigrate from one body to another, from lower to higher forms of life, with the accompanying consciousness that goes with that form. The human form of life is the facility through which we can escape this wheel of birth and death.

You’ll hear some perhaps difficult truths in today’s talk; including how if we don't use the human form of life for spiritual realization, we go back to the lower forms of life. And it can take millions of births to get a human body again. But if we try to use this life for developing God consciousness, then even if we don't have a complete success we still get another human body in the next life to continue our development.

According to the Vedas, just because one has a human body it doesn't mean that one is a human; the definition of a human is when one uses the human form of life to enquire about the Absolute Truth. If all one is doing with his human body consists of animal activities (eating, sleeping, mating and defending), one hasn't done anything human yet. Balakhilya also mentions how the teachings of all great acharyas is to follow the path of spiritual realization, not to look for material development; because God provides all material resources that humans need.

Actually, spiritual fulfillment and satisfaction is the true happiness. There is no substitute for the real purpose of human life—the greatest welfare activity is to teach this truth to others.

Highlights:

(11:34) The human form of life is not meant for cheap happiness. In the human form of life, we have the facility to obtain eternal unlimited happiness through spiritual realization.
(17:21) Just like animals, we have our particular purpose, our place to fill in the universe. But if we don’t know about that purpose, and not act upon it, we are therefore not living in harmony.
(26:14) What makes humans human? The difference between the human form of life and the lower forms of life.
(46:54) When we identify ourselves as this body, we experience a conflict between our eternal spiritual nature and the temporary nature of this body.
(50:50) The human form of life is very rare and should not be wasted. There is a natural evolution of the soul and once we reach the human form, karma, attachment and desires dictate what form of life we get next.

Recorded on August 2, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/24

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#23: Why Mindfulness?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 16 Nov 2021 06:35:33 +0000

‘Mindfulness’ has become a buzzword that is used both in business world (often as a means to achieve material success) as well among spiritual seekers (often as a means to quiet the mind). But the fact is, most mindfulness techniques are not spiritual at all; just being mindful of the present does not satisfy the soul. And whether mindfulness is spiritually beneficial or not depends upon what one is mindful of.

So what is the real importance and function of mindfulness, and how can it help us in our quest for self-discovery? Why should I practice mindfulness?

In today’s talk we take a closer look at the (perhaps) inconvenient truth about mindfulness. We speak about how this podcast presents truths that most people are not speaking about, because they are somehow inconvenient. But if you really want to know the truth, then this podcast is for you. We also discuss how there are many spiritual teachers who have a good intention, but also have a limited knowledge about the goal of life. Therefore, they can only lead people to a certain level - and not to the ultimate destination.

Mindfulness means to focus the mind on a particular subject matter. Many times it is used for the end goal of some kind of material material, or just to quiet the thoughts. But if you tune in, you’ll hear Balakhilya explain how the goal is to be mindful of, or focused on, the Absolute Truth - that we are spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul. And being mindful of our relationship to the Supreme Cause allows us to awaken the spiritual love inherent in all of us.

Highlights:

(1:24) A spiritual teacher can only take you as far as their understanding goes, though their intention and motive does matter. But the heart knows; there’s nothing superior to loving devotion.
(7:55) Practicing being mindful about the right things is essential in the spiritual journey
(13:08) Spiritual techniques to train our mind to be mindful of the truth
(20:05) The degradation of family and authority in society is now a stumbling block in seeing the true function of a spirit soul, and attaining absolute mindfulness
(31:32) With knowledge and intelligence, we can gradually train the mind to see things in the proper perspective and take steps to go in the direction of our goal
(41:15) Balakhilya shares a short story about how to engage in fulfilling activities while being mindful of others needs, according to our true nature. Some look forward to retirement from work, but satisfaction comes from providing true value.

Recorded on July 19, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/23

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#22: Habits – the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 05 Nov 2021 13:16:15 +0000

Repetition of a certain behaviour creates habits, and many of those truly control our lives. We may have some good habits, bad ones, or even some really ugly ones. We all know that it is very easy to get into bad habits - you do not need to make an effort to do it. But while bad habits start with some sweet taste to them, they always turn out very bitter.

In this episode we take a closer look at how we with knowledge and determination can make good choices and get good results for our lives. The tendency to cheat is built in in the human form of life; that is why we have guidelines to prevent us starting on a path that leads to mistakes & misery. Knowledge allows us to make a conscious decision on where we want to go.

In this context, we touch upon the difference between animals and humans; namely that being in a human form of life, we are not just controlled by instinct but have the facility to choose between good or bad decisions. Choices based on knowledge and determination lead to good results, while choices made in ignorance produce bad results.

You’ll also hear how the Bhakti Yoga process gives us many opportunities to develop good habits; habits that function as an investment for our future wellbeing (for example, listening to this podcast!). And how we can be free from expecting other peoples' praise about our achievements through uncovering our true spiritual nature and intrinsic value. In the end the question really boils down to: where do I want to end up, in a good or bad situation?

Highlights:

(1:41) A recent study found that those who followed a plant-based diet (as recommended in the Vedas) had 73% lower odds of developing moderate to severe COVID19
(10:39) There is no ‘magical pill’ - hard work is required to achieve the results we want. Good habits may appear difficult, while bad habits start off easy and yield a very difficult end result.
(21:56) Habits are a spiritual concept. The Bhakti Yoga system is filled with guidelines and promotes a lifestyle with recommended daily activities/habits that leads to a very bright & fulfilling life.
(31:31) How to avoid the pitfall where good habits become a source of false pride, simply a means by which we are recognized by others.
(39:10) The topmost ‘good habit’ is hearing and repeating the absolute truth. Practice becomes habit, and habits have the strength to take us through any difficulty.
(53:21) “By keeping regular habits and eating simple food, any man can maintain his health. Overeating, over-sense gratification, over dependence on another’s mercy, and artificial standards of living sap the very vitality of human energy.” Srimad-Bhagavatam 1:1:10, purport

Recorded on June 28, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/22

Episode links:

‘Plant-based diets, pescatarian diets and COVID-19 severity: a population-based case–control study in six countries’: https://nutrition.bmj.com/content/early/2021/05/18/bmjnph-2021-000272

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#14: The Hunter Who Became a Saint

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 07:37:26 +0000

Everybody likes stories - and the Vedic literature is full of amazing stories that we can reflect upon. So today we would like to invite you to listen to the famous Vedic story about the hunter named Mrgari. This is a story close to Balakhilya’s heart, since he himself was hunting for a large part of his youth. It is a story about how a change of ones heart is made possible by listening with an open mind and heart, and following the guidance of a true spiritual teacher. Even one such meeting with a saintly person can change ones life for ever. This is exactly the story of Mrgari - the hunter who became a saint. If you listen in, you’ll also get to hear the true meaning of the biblical story of Adam & Eve.

It is never too late for a change, and we all have the possibility to make new decisions everyday.

Highlights:

(9:41) The story of the hunter Mrgari who met the saint Narada Muni
(28:19) A change of heart is made possible through listening and hearing from the wise
(35:23) The real meaning of original sin and the story of Adam & Eve
(43:37) Balakhilya: “I know this story, because I too was a hunter”
(57:59) We can all change, simply by adding things into our life

Recorded on April 26, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/14

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#13: The 3 Psychological Influences that Control Us | Part 2

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 23:44:15 +0000

“Your diet is not only what you eat. It's what you watch, what you listen to, what you read, the people you hang around… be mindful of the things you put into your body emotionally, spiritually, and physically.” What do we ‘eat’ with our consciousness? Which mode of material nature, or which influence, do we let ourselves be affected by? And what is the result?

In the second part of our discussion on the psychological influences that control us, we dive into a more practical discussion on how to affect how we are being influenced. And how we can live a life directed towards cultivating the mode of goodness. The modes of passion and ignorance will always lead us into hurt and suffering, but mode of goodness can lift us up and lead us to a sincere search for the absolute truth. The mode of goodness brings light and wisdom, peace, harmony and deep insights into our lives. And by the principles of the yoga lifestyle we can place ourselves under the mode of goodness. Proper diet, lifestyle and good association can help us to invite the mode of goodness into our lives.

It’s up to us, and the choices we make. Remember: we can make this change in our lives - the change that is worth making.

Highlights:

(1:34) About the 'light and fast' trend when going into nature
(10:58) Everything material is in one of the three material modes, but goodness is the best choice
(21:13) Why less is often more
(33:55) The basis in any spiritual process is accepting a higher authority
(47:14) The importance of association; if you hang around criminals, you become a criminal
(59:29) Make a change somewhere, start something different
(1:24:19) "Be mindful of the things you put into your body; emotionally, spiritually and physically"

Recorded on April 12, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/13

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#5: The Truth Behind Death

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 20 Jul 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Death can be the most painful and scary experience we face in our life. It can be the death of family members, friends, lovers or even our pets. And it also brings with it a lot of fear, especially of our own death, which is always there lurking in the back of our minds. Still, about 70% of us have never had a conversation about death. Can you imagine? And 60% of us would want to have such a conversation. Today's talk is about the meaning of death, what actually happens when we die, and how we can prepare for that moment. Because the truth is that death is unavoidable in this material world. As the ancient yoga text Bhagavad-gita states; "For one who is born, death is certain". Many of us are afraid of the unknown – but this talk can give you true wisdom and freedom from the fear of death. Highlights:

(1:47) We deny the reality of death because we want to be comfortable
(12:50) If we don't know who we are, we stumble around in the darkness
(21:34) Balakhilya's experiences of death when he was a hunter
(26:16) About the documentary 'Surviving Death'
(38:24) Quotes from the Bhagavad-gita about death
(55:00) How to help a person in a dog body
(1:02:11) How Balakhilya's parents left this world
(1:24:24) If you know the truth, death has no sting

Recorded on February 22, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/5 Watch video version, contribute to podcast, join Facebook group, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

#19: Thriving in the Age of Chaos | Kali Yuga Part 2

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 19 Oct 2021 00:00:00 +0000

When we go for winter hikes in freezing temperature, knowing that unforeseen things may happen and that the cold can create dangerous situations, we prepare for it properly and adjust our clothing, food, travel plans, etc. Just like that, in our last talk we described how this is a difficult time period - Kali Yuga, the age of chaos and confusion. And it is progressively getting more and more difficult. The four pillars of pious life - cleanliness, truthfulness, austerity and mercy - are basically gone and the main focus in the society now is a constant race for collecting more material things. People do not live very long, our physical and mental health is not so great, and we are increasingly frustrated. So how to prepare for kali yuga?

The Vedic literature gives an answer to this question by strongly recommending the process of chanting of the mantras - giving the best protection in the age of kali.

Highlights:

(6:37) Lessons from the catastrophic ultra marathon in China where 21 participants died as they were not prepared for the mountain weather: we should prepare for inevitable events in our life according to authority, not to our own whims or faulty teachings
(11:07) The real meaning of the saying, “Live for today, live today as if it was your last day” is not to promote sense enjoyment, but to take it seriously and start finding shelter in that which (unlike this world) does not change
(24:41) The process of spiritual life is different in the four yugas, as the consciousness of the people are different. Following the particular process of Kali Yuga, we prepare for "winter time" in life - as well as in our life after death. So what is the particular practice recommended in kali yuga?
(47:57) A nice short story that reveals the natural attraction to the chanting of mantras and how it spreads
(58:28) The four pillars of real religion leads to a properly functioning society. When these pillars gradually are removed, the chance for having a healthy & happy society also disappear.
(1:01:59) Success should be measured in “How happy am I, am I peaceful, is my internal state stable, am I satisfied?” and not in “How much money do I have, how big a house do I have, am I having a successful career?”

Recorded on May 24, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/19

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#11: How to Manage Stress

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 17 Aug 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Did you know that stress is recognized as the #1 proxy killer disease today? The American Medical Association has noted that stress is the basic cause of more than 60% of all human illness and disease.

Statistics are cruel: 77 percent of people experience stress that affects their physical health. 73 percent of people have stress that impacts their mental health. And about 33 percent of people report feeling extreme stress and 32% said they had had suicidal thoughts and feelings because of stress.

In many cases depression and anxiety follow the longterm stress. Anger and violence caused by stress fructify in uncontrolled attacks and school shootings like recent Boulder massacre, that shows how destructive the stress and constant pressure can be.

Unfortunately we cannot change the stressful world around us, BUT we can find a secret spot where there is a shelter (even in the eye of the storm). With the process of meditation originating from the yoga tradition we can dive deeper - like into the depth of the ocean where there is always peace and balance - even if there is a storm or Tsunami on the surface, divers are safe and peaceful in the depth. So if we will dive deep enough into meditation, even big problems of life will become just like a blip on the radar. But it is up to us if we want to try, if we want to take this step.

Highlights:

(8:17) We can't avoid stress in life, but if we go deeper, then they don’t affect us that much; story of divers during a tsunami
(21:24) Because we are spirit soul we can only be satisfied by spiritual energy,
(23:29) Stress comes to us in many different forms; Balakhilya gives an example of why a wild animal kept in captivity has a greater life expectancy than in the wild
(37:11) Why we have seen an alarming increase in rates of suicide in the last year
(55:42) To solve the problem of stress we have to know what the root cause is; Why am I stressed or feeling lonely?
(1:06:56) We find arguments to justify where we’re at, so we can do what we want to do; story of Ruben's vegetarian friend

Recorded on March 29, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/11

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#4: How to Master the Mind

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:00:00 +0000

We’ve probably all experienced how all sorts of unwanted things pop up in our heads. So many people today struggle on the mental level, in the form of depression, anxiety, and restlessness. It is said that the mind can either be our best friend, or our worst enemy. But how do we make this a reality in our lives? Should we try to stop the thoughts, or is it possible to give the mind a productive direction? “If the yogi gives his mind a chance and does not restrain it, his mind will give facility to enemies like lust, anger and greed, and they will doubtlessly kill the yogi.“ Srimad Bhagavatam 5.6.4 Highlights:

(1:09) The connection between the body, the soul and the subtle material energies of mind, intelligence and false ego
(14:14) Does our mental condition affect our physical condition?
(17:30) My mind—a friend or an enemy? Can I get away from it?
(28:26) Following my mind—freedom or slavery? Training the mind.
(41:10) What is life for? About suicide, and how real knowledge can save us.
(45:26) Untrained mind and false ego keeps us in the material world
(48:06) The solution—how to become the master of my mind. Who do I want to be controlled by?
(1:07:39) So how to practically do it? Master my mind and achieve real happiness
(1:11:48) Balakhilya's spiritual journey—a gradual thing
(1:20:16) We need a trainer/teacher if we want to be successful

Recorded on April 19, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/4

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#18: Living in the Age of Chaos | Kali Yuga Part 1

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 15 Oct 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Kali Yuga - the age of chaos and confusion, the age of conflicts and wars, duplicity and corruption. This is the time epoch we are living in right now. Just as we have seconds, year, minutes, millennia, we also have 4 time periods - each with a certain duration, and each with particular characteristics.

If you’d like to see proof, just go online, listen to the news or read the newspaper - and you will see the full spectrum of Kali yuga. Surprisingly, in the Vedic literature, written over 5000 years ago, Kali yuga was predicted and is explained in detail. In this episode, we’ll be reading from the ancient Vedic scripture Srimad Bhagavatam about the characteristics of society and individuals during Kali yuga.

We’ll be speaking about how this world, including our very own bodies, are temporary - and how learning the nature of this world and our actual position leads to peace and understanding. Balakhilya explains how in the beginning of this yuga, many saintly persons gathered together to discuss what they could do to help people in this age. We now have the opportunity to learn from them about how to live a happy and peaceful life in this age. We also peak about how there are so many negative influences in the Kali yuga, and to become aware of these is essential for success on our journey forward.

Highlights:

(10:21) Yugas are long periods of time that continuously rotate, just like the seasons change in a year. Kali Yuga: the age of chaos, quarrel and confusion.
(25:00) Description of humans in the age of Kali; “They are quarrelsome, lazy, misguided, unlucky, and above all, always disturbed.”
(32:00) We can learn from saintly persons how to live happy and peaceful life in this difficult time period
(40:06) By learning what self-realization actually means, we may spark a natural interest in the subject
(49:05) Learning the temporary nature of this world, and our position in it, leads to great peace and understanding
(59:28) To learn about the negative influences during Kali yuga is essential on our journey forward

Recorded on May 17, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/18

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#10: How to Go Beyond Karma

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 13 Aug 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Why is it that bad things happen to seemingly good people? Can I change my destiny, or am I predestined to follow a certain path in life? What did Jesus mean when he said “As you sow, so shall you reap”? In today’s episode, we look closer at karma, destiny, and the role of our free will.

You’ll first hear Balakhilya give a thorough explanation of the term ‘Karma’. Then we look closer at a misunderstanding that many people have; namely that we voluntarily choose to be born in a certain life situation, and that we do that do learn certain lessons. We speak about a truly compassionate person will use the idea of karma is the most beneficial way, teaching people how to live to not experience future suffering. Like Balakhilya says, “Real compassion is a condition of the heart”.

You’ll hear about how Balakhilya himself was a vegetarian, but used to serve meat stakes to customers in a restaurant - not seeing how everyone related to the meat (killing the animal, transporting it, serving eat, etc) gets equal future suffering, or karma for such activities. We discuss how we can make progress in life, which actually means going beyond both bad and good karma. Getting off the wheel of birth and death is the aim.

We also talk about how one can make progress toward changing one’s life, and the necessity of actually purifying the heart to make that possible.

Highlights:

(05:32) Karma means action; what goes around, comes around
(10:12) Why bad things may happen to innocent people
(20:56) The connection between karma and food; Balakhilya shares his story of serving meat at a restaurant
(33:19) Change may be hard, but how to make it happen?
(42:26) Both good and bad karma are undesirable
(58:04) The solution that purifies the heart, not only removes karma
(1:26:08) If you want the achieve the benefit, you've got to desire to know the truth

Recorded on February 15, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/10 Watch video version, contribute to podcast, join Facebook group, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

#3: Can’t Get No Satisfaction?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 13 Jul 2021 00:00:00 +0000

As The Rolling Stones sang; “I can’t get no satisfaction”. Is true satisfaction possible, or are we meant to just accept that we will never really get there? We also discuss how we’re all sacrificing something for something else (and we’ve got to learn what’s really worth sacrificing for), the importance of staying true to oneself, and how meditation transformed one of New Zealand’s top rock bands in the 80s. Highlights:

(2:00) How the Covid-situation creates hindrances for achieving the «happiness» we are used to
(9:48) What can actually satisfy the soul? Discussion on cocaine, suicide, religion, non-existence, and losing my individuality
(16:36) Where is real satisfaction? The Rolling Stones song “Can’t get no satisfaction”.
(24:44) “I don't want to hear that solution, I want a solution that I like”
(40:28) Everybody is sacrificing something every day
(45:10) Hitting the bottom can help us embark on a new journey
(1:03:42) Lust vs. real love—material world versus spiritual world
(1:10:28) Life is the sweetest of the sweet

Recorded on February 8, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/3

Episode links:

Prahlad and the Chants (former ‘Spies’): https://www.praladandthechants.com/

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#17: Find Shelter in the Eternal

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 12 Oct 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Jesus said, “Don’t build your house on the sea shore in low tide”. The truth is, it’s our nature to have a permanent, stable situation. That’s why everybody’s trying to achieve it. Because in the spiritual world, there is no birth, no death - you’re not struggling to hold on to anything, because it’s not trying to run away from you.

In today’s episode we speak about various topics related to the temporary nature of this world - and where a true shelter can be found. You’ll hear Balakhilya explain how faith coupled with intelligence is required to make progress, how there is an absolute truth that we can move closer to through a true spiritual process, and the nature of doubts. Maybe in listening to our podcast, or this particular episode, you have doubts rising to your mind. The fact is: doubts can be positive or negative, depending on how you react to them.

You’ll also hear us talk about Elon Musk saying that artificial intelligence is much much more dangerous than nuclear weapons, how we can choose to be controlled by a spiritual influence or by the modes of nature (see episode 12 & 13), and how it’s important to not jump into things ‘over our head’ - we need to take one step at a time, which is equally true for our spiritual life.

Highlights:

(2:31) Nothing in this world lasts; that’s actually part of the design
(4:47) Both faith & intelligence is required to make progress
(8:38) If you’re only accepting material truths as being true, then it’s always changing - it’s all relative
(13:52) Doubts can be positive or negative, depending on how you react to them
(27:51) About AI and how neglecting spiritual education comes at a very high price
(37:22) Crossing the bridge of change starts with one small step

Recorded on May 10, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/17

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#9: The How and Why of Meditation

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 10 Aug 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Maybe you are already interested in making a spiritual journey, or maybe you are feeling stressed and would just like to improve your physical and mental situation? In whichever case, meditation is the method by which we can approach a more harmonious life. Less worry, more happy. But there are also huge misunderstandings regarding meditation, that we will investigate in today’s talk. You’ll learn all the ‘How’s and ‘Why’s of meditation, so that you can apply these techniques in your own life and reap all the material, psychological, and spiritual benefits.

Highlights:

(06:05) Mantras are not material sounds, they come from the spiritual world and therefore comes with spiritual power
(10:42) The goal is not just to be peaceful, but to be purified of contamination—uncovering our natural qualities.
(41:54) Meditation with Gauranga pranayama, the highest form of pranayama
(1:01:31) Is a conscious effort required on our part, or do we just relax?
(1:07:01) Japa yoga meditation class. This type of meditation uses beads to help engage our all our senses in the meditation, thus making it easier to focus on the mantras.
(1:24:16) Sankirtan, a group meditation where we sing the mantras together

Recorded on March 22, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/9 Watch video version, contribute to podcast, join Facebook group, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

#2: What is the Root Cause of Jealousy?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Jealousy: "The thoughts or feelings of insecurity, fear, and concern over a relative lack of possessions or safety". We’ve all experienced it. Studies show that even 5 month old babies experience it. But is it necessary? And is it natural? Today we discuss jealousy, why humility is essential to feel thankfulness, how to levitate (in the real meaning of the word), and how to bring a divided world together.

Highlights:

(7:49) - Jealousy is not normal for the pure soul
(14:21) - We are jealous because we want to be the enjoyer
(28:40) - Real thankfulness requires humility, realizing that everything we have is an amazing gift
(37:46) - Why even infants (and animals) experience jealousy
(41:45) - Conquer jealousy through a step by step spiritual realization
(52:57) - Sincerity is the start of the journey
(1:01:16) - Don't sweep jealousy under the rug—instead change the heart and mind through spiritual purification
(1:21:32) - Appreciation of our true, eternal nature can bring a divided world together (and soccer will not)

Recorded on February 1, 2021. Full transcript & episode info on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/2/. Watch video version, contribute to podcast, join Facebook group, etc: https://linktr.ee/breakingtrail

Bonus: How Singing Changes the Brain

Balakhilya and Ruben — Fri, 08 Oct 2021 00:00:00 +0000

“Group singing has been scientifically proven to lower stress, relieve anxiety, and elevate endorphins.” Are you wondering why we are always ending our episodes with a small music meditation? We take a closer look at the powerful physical and mental benefits of kirtan - an ancient form of meditation focused on the hearing and repeating of mantras, accompanied by music.

Article discussed: https://ideas.time.com/2013/08/16/singing-changes-your-brain/

Real Equality, Beyond ‘Us’ vs ‘Them’

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 07 Sep 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Society has become so radicalized, racially oriented, ‘us’ versus ‘them’. We are in dire need of absolute truth, an absolute platform to stand on, that can lead us in a direction of unity and true respect. The truth is that we all have different roles to fill in this world. We all have an equal intrinsic value as spirit souls - but just like in a car, every part of a car is not equal. They have different roles to play for the optimal function of the entire system, that ultimately is meant to make spiritual growth possible.

Highlights:

The different roles of male & female
An absolute perspective to end conflict
Team spirit is the greatest enemy of mankind
Going beyond ‘we’ and ‘them’
Blind faith versus blind scepticism
True knowledge & education is necessary
We need an absolute vision, not temporary vision
Being open minded, accepting what we can digest at this point in time

Recorded on April 26.

#1: Break Trail – Stay True to Your Self

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 06 Jul 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Do you also feel like you don't really fit in, like there's another calling? In this first episode of Breaking Trail, we dive into the question of how to be true to oneself. Knowing who I really am, and with proper guidance, I can stay true to myself and make a serious decision to change my life to achieve true happiness that lasts. Life is a big mystery when trying to follow the recipe to success and happiness laid out by society at large. Living in what's been called 'the Century of the Self', everything is about I, me, and mine.

The problem is, we are basing our idea of who we are on untruth. So it's an absolute necessity for us to dare to break ground, look into ourselves, and explore the truth of who we actually are. Like Balakhilya says in this episode; “When you know, actually know, that you're doing the right thing with your life; that's huge". Highlights:

(2:08) The real meaning of truthfulness
(6:30) What it means to ‘be yourself'—what is the 'self'?
(28:01) The role of intuition when navigating life's journey
(32:47) Saving the planet: a consuming consciousness is not the solution
(43:33) What is true success?
(49:47) The truth is often difficult
(58:28) The importance of good habits
(1:06:11) Balakhilya shares his background as a farm boy, surfer, and a pleasure seeker

Recorded on July 5, 2021. Full transcript & episode info on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/1

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#16: What is My Duty?

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 05 Oct 2021 00:00:00 +0000

“Non-violence, truthfulness, honesty, desire for the welfare & happiness of all others, and freedom from lust, anger, and greed, constitute duties for all member of society”

We speak a lot about our rights, but how about our responsibilities? What is my duty as a human being in this world, that will provide for a peaceful and prosperous society? In this episode we talk about how the universal duty for all human beings is to desire the welfare & happiness of all others. You’ll hear about the importance of not just present opinions but the actual truth, the difference between accepting our imperfections and just being OK with it, as well as the Vedic system of dividing society.

Maybe you are a mother or father - with full spectrum of duties and responsibilities of a parent, maybe you are a simple worker or a boss of the company, maybe you have some profession and a lot of duties connected with that. Maybe you have some mission in life that brings with it some activities, duties and responsibilities. According to the Vedas there are four different varnas and ashramas that are defying our position in the society, and there are specific duties that come along with that.

But above all of that we also have prescribed duties of a human beings and qualities that we should cultivate; like non-violence, truthfulness, and honesty. We speak about the importance of actually cultivating these qualities for the better of society and everyone living in it - because when there is no external peace, it’s because there’s no internal peace.

Highlights:

(1:33) Truth is always true—regardless of our opinion about it
(7:18) Equality doesn’t mean bringing everybody down to the lowest common denominator (example from Virginia)
(11:32) The Vedic division of society for perfect harmony
(20:35) Truthfulness is speaking truth: not what people want to hear, but what they need to hear
(32:36) Going beyond lust in our relationships to others
(44:12) If we care for the wellbeing of others, we should cultivate the qualities of non-violence, truthfulness & honesty—which also serves as an internal control mechanism
(1:02:09) This podcast is for the few people who are interested and ready for change (example of record-holding female surfer)

Recorded on May 3, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/16

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Intro | Never Give Up

Balakhilya and Ruben — Mon, 05 Jul 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Life is a journey. It really is. It’s an eternal journey, because we are eternal. It’s not going to end when the body ends, this is just one blip on the radar. Life is a puzzle, but every little piece of the puzzle that you put in it’s proper place gives you a little better picture of the whole thing. So you add this piece, that piece, this bit, that bit, and pretty soon you’re inspired to go to a higher level. And not only physically but mentally, and not only mentally but consciously and spiritually. One build on the other. It all is part of a program that is changing things in your life. It’s all leading in a positive direction, step by step. Life Is meant to be joyous, really. But if you’re trying to have a joyous life from material sources, then it won’t be joyous. Do we need all these extra things, do we need all this material success, do we need all these things we don’t have - or not? There’s a saying in the Vedas; simple living, high thinking. We’re going to be on the journey regardless, so why not make it the best journey we can make it? It’s an experience, it’s not just a philosophy. You’ll feel better right away. Really, you will. You’ll feel better inside. One step at a time, one step at a time, that’s all. Never give up. Never give up.

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#8: Life vs Matter

Balakhilya and Ruben — Tue, 03 Aug 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered what ‘life’ actually is? Still today, modern science has no clear idea of what ‘life’ means. Actually, life and matter are two completely different energies. Life is always alive, and matter is always dead. In today’s episode we look closer at the difference between matter and life, something that gives us the opportunity to truly understand questions such as “How can I truly feel alive?”. Understanding life itself also provides a solid foundation for coming to know who we are, and what our life is really for.

In our talk we speak about how a robot hitchhiked across Canada, the dangers of artificial intelligence, and how we can develop tolerance toward the imperfect situation we’re in in this world. Balakhilya explains how what we are actually looking for to feel life, is love (and we are constantly looking for more extreme ways to prove ourselves externally, to prove that we are worth something). We end the discussion by talking about how meditation can bring us back to life.

Highlights:

(6:41) What is life? Balakhilya recalls when he surfed, he said it was his life—but this doesn't define what life is.
(13:00) The body is always dead. Material energy is temporary, spiritual energy is eternal.
(24:00) AI and eliminating the need for human beings
(32:00) Humans adapt to anything, ignore the pain of toothache but causes other problems. Isn't it better to fix the problem?
(42:19) Our eternal nature is to be happy and that's not going to stop
(51:00) Hamster on the wheel analogy, running and running and going nowhere: stuck on the wheel of birth and death
(1:08:00) If you take the journey, you get the reward. Let's start the journey!

Recorded on March 15, 2021. Read episode transcript on https://breakingtrail.life/podcast/8

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